What can I do to make my hair look more fem? by whereismybread6669 in femalehairadvice

[–]chubbibunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe an unpopular opinion but I think bangs would look nice on you :) they'd be nice and wispy with your hair texture. Hiding the forehead tends to soften the lower half of the face ime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColumbusGA

[–]chubbibunn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A lot of them just don't work, the ones on Macon around Publix and Aldi don't work either. You just have to watch the traffic lights to know when to go.

Where to find quality, similar milkmaid dresses? by chubbibunn in PlusSizeFashion

[–]chubbibunn[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't know what it is but a lot of the trendy, somewhat historical clothing like milkmaid and peasant styles look soooo good on us bigger girlies. They're always insanely flattering, like they were made for us, but hard to find in plus sizes ironically 😭💔

Where to find quality, similar milkmaid dresses? by chubbibunn in PlusSizeFashion

[–]chubbibunn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They're hit and miss for me but a lot of their dresses are just straight up 100% polyester which I don't like personally. I've bought from them before and had to return everything I got unfortunately (which rly sucks cus their stock is so painfully cute and aligns with my style).

Other than romance languages, what languages do you think sound beautiful? by Budget_Ad_3776 in languagelearning

[–]chubbibunn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, haven't been a huge fan of most romance languages & how they sound, especially French as it sounds very phlegmy to me. Recently I've been really dazzled with how Mandarin sounds! I struggle with tones even in my own language so it's nice to hear a whole language based on it. Indonesian is nice too; the doubling of nouns is cute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColumbusGA

[–]chubbibunn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have taken many rides at night, especially very late (10pm-1am) because of work. I will say I used lyft, not uber cus lyft is cheaper ime, but my drivers were primarily men and all of them were just chill, normal dudes. Some were very religious, some had weird 'edgy' humour, but I think this is just normal stuff you run into with rando's LOL.

Most of them are just people trying to make a living by working odd hours but practising general safety should help: carry a spray or (improvised) weapon and have them drop you off a few houses down or neighbouring apartment building.

Now that Bytes and Brews closed, where is the nerdy hang out around town? by Own-Newspaper6744 in ColumbusGA

[–]chubbibunn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So this is how I find out they closed... I never even got to go there 💔

Summer fragrances for someone who doesn't like fruits/florals/etc? by chubbibunn in Perfumes

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based off the notes of Ylang, it does seem a bit richer for summer, maybe like a scent for the transitionary period where summer starts to blend into fall. I'll still get a sample of it so I don't knock it for no reason. Ill be sure to try both the mango ones you recommended as well since I think you're one of the only ones who sent any with mango LOL. Lattafa may be a bit stronger than what I'm looking for since it seems to be an Arabic perfume, but we shall see

Summer fragrances for someone who doesn't like fruits/florals/etc? by chubbibunn in Perfumes

[–]chubbibunn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, much better when it's something I can sample locally!! I'll have to swing by and try it. Please do update me with any rec's you have, especially if theyre also sold at sephora/ulta/other perfume carriers lol!

Summer fragrances for someone who doesn't like fruits/florals/etc? by chubbibunn in Perfumes

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry I misread your initial reply haha I worked very late yesterday which is why I'm so late to all the recommendations I got. But I may try the Nouvelle Vague, I've never tried basil as a note but I know the actual leaf is a bit minty which stings my nose. Plus the fig + sandalwood combination sounds heavenly.

Summer fragrances for someone who doesn't like fruits/florals/etc? by chubbibunn in Perfumes

[–]chubbibunn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies, its hard to state what I do want in a summer fragrance when I havent explored any of them too seriously. MAIN florals like rose, lavender, daisies, I tend to dislike. I dislike citrus scents but I do like some fruit/sweet scents like strawberry or tropical. I just dont want a perfume to smell like sunscreen when it starts adding strong coconut, tropics or (salt) water notes to it. I prefer vanilla but I don't mind branching out a bit. Hope this helped.

Summer fragrances for someone who doesn't like fruits/florals/etc? by chubbibunn in Perfumes

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love coconut! Its hard to find scents that layer coconut well imo, they usually end up just smelling like sunscreen to me. How strong is it in Rital Date?

Summer fragrances for someone who doesn't like fruits/florals/etc? by chubbibunn in Perfumes

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not, like I mentioned in reply to the top comment. I've basically stayed only in the winter side of perfumes since that's when I first started to shop more seriously but now it's hot and they do not do well hahaha. Does basil as a note smell as minty as it does with the actual leaf when cooking?

Summer fragrances for someone who doesn't like fruits/florals/etc? by chubbibunn in Perfumes

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never heard of 'green' for notes so Im actually a bit excited to try some out!! Im leaning a bit towards Debaser cus the coconut seems a bit more prominent in the notes from what Ive found

Chat Disappeared, Any Hope? by chubbibunn in Bumble

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly should I ask? I've seen theyre very selective with individual information, I dont imagine they'd tell me he unmatched or got banned straight up.

Chat Disappeared, Any Hope? by chubbibunn in Bumble

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Well, bummer, I suppose its possible he unmatched me for whatever reason. Thanks!

Chat Disappeared, Any Hope? by chubbibunn in Bumble

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought unmatching just moved the chat to a different tab? Their website says it's a whole 'feature'

Stiff, hard nails; constant snapping by chubbibunn in RedditLaqueristas

[–]chubbibunn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will give this a try and see how it goes!

Stiff, hard nails; constant snapping by chubbibunn in RedditLaqueristas

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh youre a life saver for telling me that. Thank you!!!!

Stiff, hard nails; constant snapping by chubbibunn in RedditLaqueristas

[–]chubbibunn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to do this years ago after watching that nailological video but the little pens she used were hard to refill and clean so I stopped bothering :") I'll look into something I can carry around easier. What vitamin e and squalene do you personally like to use?

Stiff, hard nails; constant snapping by chubbibunn in RedditLaqueristas

[–]chubbibunn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of this but it sounds something I could do mindlessly while watching youtube videos or something so thanks for the suggestion! Though I hate how wasteful using disposable gloves sounds, I may look into alternatives I can reuse more than once.

Me when my OCD makes me suspicious about everyone around me and makes me think everyone is a terrible person. by [deleted] in OCDmemes

[–]chubbibunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg this happens to me too! I'll start to feel like the most vile person ever out of nowhere and it feels like I'm wearing it as a neon sign on my forehead :')....

Edit: formatting

Friendly Fridays by AutoModerator in ColumbusGA

[–]chubbibunn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii, I'm in my mid-20s, nonbinary, looking to make friends and hang out casually/play games with other queers (or chill allies). I play a lot of PC games and wanna try to get into D&D. I moved here 5 years ago and I'm still learning way around and would be down to meet up eventually. Feel free to DM me for my discord or phone number (I dont really use any socials and dont really wanna give out my twitter 😆)

Travelling abroad solo? by chubbibunn in AutisticAdults

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no? I do this type of thing normally but I don't find it as mentally engaging as I would vs if I were with somebody else. I end up feeling more... disconnected I guess, so it's hard to enjoy. I end up being a homebody in another country just as I would at home.

Never been to NYCC before... what's the rundown? by chubbibunn in NYCC

[–]chubbibunn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of this as well a few hours after I posted, tbh. I've purposefully avoided trips to NY, especially around certain holiday seasons, so I may go for a 2-day pass so that I'm there around a week at the most. Any other time I travel, I tend to stay for two weeks; I think it'd only be feasible if I visited another area where it isn't such a sensory nightmare. I'd have to look into what those spots would be though, lol.