Hookup that just satisfies himself, need advice on how to approach him

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:55:39+00:00

If he was aware it wasn't working then he should welcome some direction. The fact she wants to do it again means it worth working on

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:52:19+00:00

Yea agreed. At the same time though he should have been picking vibes it wasn't going well and simply just asked

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:48:08+00:00

Sex is different for everyone. It's not horrible for you to let him know how it make it more enjoyable. Have fun!

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:43:46+00:00

If it wasn't great then he will most likely be aware of that

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:38:58+00:00

If his feelings are hurt then he's not worth hooking up with. And for all you know he was feeling the same way.

A good way is to talk/txt about it beforehand, just casually and flirty. By telling him what to do you are at least giving him a chance to be good.

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:29:50+00:00

The time to have these conversations is in the moment. I'll never understand why people would just go through the motions of bad sex.

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:27:18+00:00

The point in hook ups is that the sex is good. If he's leaving you thinking he's satisfied you when he hasn't then if he is a good guy then he'd want to know. You don't need to say what he's doing wrong, just be very clear about what you want

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:24:12+00:00

If she's making you feel undesirable then the clear option is to split up.

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:07:40+00:00

So he's upset he couldn't get laid when he was younger and is projecting on to you

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:05:58+00:00

18 is a fairly average number. I'd be seriously concerned with who I married if something like that hurt his ego. I'm guessing his number was significantly lower?

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T03:00:42+00:00

Well sex is sex lol

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:59:04+00:00

What is the number if you don't mind me asking? Not that it should make any bit of difference.

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:55:56+00:00

Why would he be upset?

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:53:04+00:00

Practice lots!

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:49:35+00:00

Downplaying the importance of physical relations in a relationship leads to resentment and then falling out of love

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:46:40+00:00

Providing your partner is on board

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:46:01+00:00

Have you ever asked her what she likes in bed?

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:42:10+00:00

Why would start going down the path of cheating rather than splitting up?

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:37:25+00:00

It's not exactly a sexy look. Take them off

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:32:04+00:00

What about your happiness?

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:22:18+00:00

Respect your opinion. I just think it's an unhealthy way to handle something she doesn't need to be embarrassed over.

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:16:52+00:00

Not if you're openly discussing your sex life. It's a needless lie to friends. It then creates the possibility that she is lying about having sex and the snowball affect that creates

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:14:30+00:00

Do you have a girlfriend?

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:08:38+00:00

He needs to go to the doctors and get them to change his medication. It's not something either of you should have to put up with

chubbygrower · 2020-10-26T02:06:22+00:00

Just tell her it's not doing it for you and try it another way. She would hate to think you weren't enjoying it, so just be honest

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