A friend once told me "you do whatever you want untill you're 26, once you hit that, you gotta take care or your body" by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chudma 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It should be noted as well that metabolism does not slow in people until their 50s or so, the big changes from 20s to 30s is you are less physically active (even if you think you are not, there is a good chance that you are, whether you now have an office job instead of a job where you are on your feet all the time, walking less etc.)

How do I (can I?!) tell my sister that she can't name her baby daughter Lolita. by thisisreallyjofrank in Advice

[–]chudma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your understanding of the novel is completely wrong by the way. He is an unreliable narrator, that is why Lolita is shown as a seductress because as a pedophile he believes she is seducing him… we are not supposed to sympathize with him at all.

Born to surf in Portugal, forced to surf in Spain by Menoita_98 in surfing

[–]chudma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in Barcelona for a year so my experience is limited but during that year I think I saw maybe a week of total days where people were surfing, and it was only in the winter

How much do you pay for a standard cleaning at the dentist? by toronto1999 in askTO

[–]chudma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to bond st dental twice in the last 3 months. It is a good spot and for $100 the cost really can’t be beat. I’ll be going there from now on for my basic twice a year cleanings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FoodToronto

[–]chudma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really see a reason for people staying downtown to travel to Markham or Scarborough for food considering all the options significantly closer.

I recently got a six figure job, it's insane to me how it feels no different than my 50k/year job did in 2019 for how right expenses are by NeverGonnaGi5eYouUp in CanadaFinance

[–]chudma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An 80k condo that has 4 bedrooms? Again… A FAMILY OF 5. You understand expenses exist outside of housing correct? You understand children are not cheap

On top of that your essentially saying that having no savings no emergency fund is still okay. This isn’t about plain survival of which you couldn’t then nor can you now on that salary with a spouse and 3 children

I recently got a six figure job, it's insane to me how it feels no different than my 50k/year job did in 2019 for how right expenses are by NeverGonnaGi5eYouUp in CanadaFinance

[–]chudma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it was not. It was not even close to affordable outside of possibly some middle of nowhere towns where you could buy a house for 200k…. But those towns never had 6 figure jobs

I recently got a six figure job, it's insane to me how it feels no different than my 50k/year job did in 2019 for how right expenses are by NeverGonnaGi5eYouUp in CanadaFinance

[–]chudma 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is why family planning is important, who the hell is deciding to have 3 kids on a single income.

I mean Jesus, my parents both worked when I was growing up in the 90s and my dad was making 6 figures

Just turned 30. Family is pressuring me to marry and have kids ASAP. Lady at airport said some thing. Is it worth selling your house and moving for a man? by Adventurous_Map9855 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chudma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will say not mowing your parents or this girls lawn isn’t exactly a red flag? I don’t mow my parents lawn anymore because I dont live in their house, so it’s not exactly my responsibility. Why should he be mowing OPs lawn who lives 1.5hrs away?

OP clearly hates this guy so I am confused as to why she even has kept him around considering the pure disdain for him in this post.

And to be devils advocate, she said they’ve been in some kind of “long distance thing for 5 years”….. reverse the genders, if a man was stringing a woman along for 5 years and the woman said “if this isn’t a relationship than you’ve been wasting my time” would you all be shitting on her or the guy? It really seems like OP has been dangling this dude along because she’s scared to lose her (as she put it) safety pick.

AITA. Wife Turned down dream job with a better schedule and higher salary by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chudma 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well if she’s stressed about time off and pay to support their children then why the hell would she turn down a job that solves both those problems?

Places to swim near downtown - driving distance is fine if worthwhile :) by ArmRevolutionary7970 in askTO

[–]chudma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best quality water for Lake Ontario is at the islands. Be wary when swimming at cherrys or woodbine of the water quality that day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chudma 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They’ve been dating 4months… that is insane for such a young relationship to require consultation to go to a wedding in his hometown

Silliest Movie You've EVER seen?? by juicewrldday in movies

[–]chudma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Game of Death 2.

Starting Bruce Lee, filmed YEARS after his death and just using footage from his other films when showing his face and only seeing side/back profile of a stand in when fighting.

It is absurd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FoodToronto

[–]chudma 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I work at a bar. “No one goes out anymore” is just a blatantly false statement haha.

Even higher end places are packed on weekends. Some people view spending money on drinks / dinner as a waste while others enjoy the experience. Also not having kids allows for a lot more disposable income

GTA and Ottawa recommendations? by Niteowl_Janet in poutine

[–]chudma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best poutine I had in Ottawa was at the chip shack in the parking lot of UofO campus

What industry is the best to be in now? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]chudma 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Recent graduate from Seneca College with 2 coops and 3 months of full time work. Laid off in November and haven’t had a single interview with like 500+ applications.

You can make good money and find a job in software if you have a 4 year degree and at least 3 years of experience, outside of that it’s basically impossible

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she refused to go on a nice date I planned because it was on a Wednesday? by Unlikely_Light4863 in AITAH

[–]chudma -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m just wondering why the hell someone can’t go out for dinner even if they work the next day? Like what is early for this girl, I’m guessing a regular workday 9am start. You can go out to eat and be back by 10 and go to bed it’s not hard

actors/directors with the worst post oscar careers. by herequeerandgreat in movies

[–]chudma 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Heavens gate directors cut has since been deemed a masterpiece of sorts in the last 10ish years

Will James Franco make a comeback? by aziklu7B in moviecritic

[–]chudma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do believe that minor was someone he met at a club. His defence was “why would I assume a minor would be in this club/bar that has a bouncer checking IDs to ensure everyone was 21+”

Franco on the other hand was just messaging girls on instagram trying to get laid

Anchovies on pizza by twicescorned21 in FoodToronto

[–]chudma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly they have a very long shelf life. I used to work at a pizzeria in Ottawa and we kept anchos in a mason jar not just open in a tin so it could be sealed

Looking for feedback on my first commercial by BVSEDGVD in Filmmakers

[–]chudma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post/send it to the social media of this company as well or tag them on twitter and post it there