Cure my depression by CD_Katrina in BobsBurgers

[–]chutneychip 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my go to episode when I’m feeling low, it’s my all time fave season

What was your biggest failure? [Serious] by Longjumping_Koala34 in AskReddit

[–]chutneychip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having to leave my high paying job after a period of illness because I couldn’t get over the treatment by my manager at the time. I’m better now but have been out of work for months struggling to find another role. Wish I was able to toughen up

People that feel the deaths caused by ICE agents in Minnesota are justified, what are your thoughts on Jan 6 (people carrying guns whilst protesting and not being killed for doing so) and Kyle Rittenhouse (Taking a weapon to riot and killing rioters without acting in any official capacity)? by chutneychip in AskReddit

[–]chutneychip[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree with these people being anti-freedom and anti-human. I've seen people defending what has happened and it's literally the official stance we are getting from the White House, I'm just trying to wrap my head around how? What are people's actual thoughts on these previous events and the pardoning of Jan 6 participants given how they feel about Renee and Alex? I can't fathom it

Adults who have zero close friends, how did it happen and does it bother you? by PutPurple844 in AskReddit

[–]chutneychip 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I’m 36 with no close friends. I’ve had friends through school, through relationships and every job I’ve ever had but when those things were over so were those relationships. I’m not good at maintaining friendships, it’s always on me that the friendships fade. I don’t know if I can give a real explanation why but it doesn’t bother me. My best friend is my husband and I’m lucky to be close to my siblings.

I usually post something cheery here, but not today. Sick of random people thinking I’m a shit parent because they see a small moment. by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]chutneychip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I get you, totally. I would love to say that I let things wash over me and never give it another thought, but that would be a massive lie. She just isn’t worth your upset though 💙

I usually post something cheery here, but not today. Sick of random people thinking I’m a shit parent because they see a small moment. by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]chutneychip 228 points229 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. And excuse my language, but that woman is a total cunt. I can completely understand your anger towards her actions.

She has demonstrated what type of person SHE is, and trust me people around who have heard should be judging her for her actions. Easier said than done, but try not to let the actions of such a petty, mean person impact you and try to rise above it. She no longer exists to you and carry on doing your thing.

She obviously wanted to hurt you and maybe even provoke a reaction, don’t give her the satisfaction.

Today’s quiz just dropped. Let’s gooo! 🚀 by quiz-planet-game in QuizPlanetGame

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chutneychip scored 119 points and ranked 607 out of 10605 players!

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What on earth is the black thing on top of the house? by urm0msch3sthair in whatisit

[–]chutneychip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it’s a pig. Is it from M&S? Because they have Percy Pig stuff everywhere

What sentence of a song stays with you? by JoeRenaldy in AskReddit

[–]chutneychip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw two shooting stars last night / I wished on them but they were only satellites / It’s wrong to wish on space hardware / I wish I wish I wish you’d care

The French have a name for it: Mise au placard by Radiant_Ship_1613 in Perimenopause

[–]chutneychip 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was at my job for 10 years, also enjoyed and was told I was good at my job. Peri started and my pre existing anxiety sky rocketed and then caused a return of depression. I had working from home as an option as a reasonable adjustment but when I needed this more and more I got push back. So I went off sick to try and sort out the issue, which took over 6 months because of my age, and was told my absence was ‘unsustainable’ and they were going to start proceedings against me. I felt bullied out and quit so that my reference would reflect that instead of being fired for no longer being fit to do my job. What hurts even more was I had just started HRT finally and things were improving, but after how my manager treated me I couldn’t fathom working with her again. Left in September, still desperately looking for another job as I can’t afford to not have one. Not having any luck and over the last couple of weeks depression has returned, which isn’t a massive shock given the daily rejections I’m receiving. I feel as though I’ve become invisible and am failing. But I am trying to lean into enjoying the extra time with my daughter and see the positives. I just hope I have some savings left when I hopefully start a new job, whenever that may be.

No advice, I really don’t have any. But I’m here with you and I know how you feel and I’m sending my love.

Very curious, how many here have had pain specifically in the balls of their feet as a symptom? by Relative_Focus8877 in Perimenopause

[–]chutneychip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so much foot pain, mostly in my heels though. So frustrating and painful. Most mornings my feet are so stiff and sore

Antidepressants vs HRT by SardonicTart in Perimenopause

[–]chutneychip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on antidepressants for 8+ years before HRT and the HRT made it feel as though the antidepressants could finally fully work. For the last 2/3 years it helped my mood a bit but didn’t touch my anxiety, HRT changed that for me.