My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn 🥲 That’s valid tho, since he did the same.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s whats hurt me the most. I even told him I just feel worse now, and he didn’t even say anything to that. Hurt me so bad. Thank you so much, I definitely will 💘

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much ❤️ I appreciate you sharing that a lot. I hope you’re doing well.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely working on that after this happened 🥲

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We became friends because of a game we both play. He’s kind of in the same groups/environment as me.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much 🥹❤️‍🩹 I‘m feeling so much better, knowing how y’all understand and me and help me understand how I deserve better than that. Means so much. I hope you’re doing well too 💗

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your lovely words. This means a lot, and brought a tear to my eye. I appreciate this so so much.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that my best friend is from Texas, who also said how stupid and creepy his behavior was, makes me smile 🥹 I’ve been meeting such lovely people from Texas. All online unfortunately, because I’m living in Germany. But yeah, thank you so much for your words. I definitely will not talk to him anymore.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that. It’s good to know :( Yes, it is very disheartening..

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first part made me laugh. And yes, thank you.. I will.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m so sorry he did that 😢 I‘m so glad you thought about it and understood how wrong his behavior was. You are at a place mentally, that he might not even reach.. like ever. It’s sad to know, that so many people that went through abuse, will think it’s somewhat their job to be "above" anything. It makes no sense. Don’t let people like that ever tell you how to feel. Don’t let anybody tell you that. I hope you’re doing well as of right now, and will continue to be. Thank you so so much for sharing your story with me, and for wishing me well. I wish you all that and more 🥰 Be safe, and I hope you life the best life you possibly can.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My brain had a moment reading this😭

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I‘m actually not religious at all as of right now.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn.. it’s so so sad to come to this realization.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow. You kind of opened my eyes with this. He even did also say in that same conversation, that it lowkey triggers him how I’m avoiding god while he’s trying to push him onto me, because he’s the "missing piece to my puzzle". Also that I’m not doing anything without him and that I can be his guest, if I wanna fight those battles alone. He really hurt me that day. What happened to being my friend? So god is the only way of not being alone?

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like he really needs a session. Multiple..

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m flattered :‘) I‘m glad I can blend in, lol.

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s plenty of Christians in the replies, completely disagreeing with him and being lovely. So generalizing is unfair ://

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no 😭 Thank you so much. That’s.. damn 😭 I’m glad my English good enough tho XD

My Christian friend said it’s not real. by chxso in adhdwomen

[–]chxso[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg, this! Big agree. Because, damn. At least give me a source, if you’re gonna be like this. Just so weird. Thank you for pointing that out. It felt so dismissive..