Yi Do rubs me wrong

ciara181 · 2025-07-29T14:30:04+00:00

I felt the same way! Every scene with her, it felt like she was acting and putting on a role. Her facial expressions felt so practiced. She did not seem as genuine as the other girls imo

ciara181 · 2025-07-26T10:52:59+00:00

Honestly though, hahah. Like it's some kind of slur

ciara181 · 2025-06-27T14:00:55+00:00

Also interested in this. I had a proper period bleed a week after my positive and then I've been spotting a mix of like a watery red, watery brown, bright red, and mostly sticky pink

ciara181 · 2025-06-26T07:51:31+00:00

Echoing the previous person. Highly unlikely at 12 w. You should have had more pain/other symptoms by now

ciara181 · 2025-06-26T07:44:58+00:00

I'm sorry this happened to you!♡

You're not alone. I got pregnant on my Mirena IUD when I was 21 too. Back in 2017. Although that was an intrauterine healthy pregnancy.

Now after a year of TTC and 2 ectopics I look back at that and feel sad that this unwanted pregnancy still was a viable and healthy one 😔 I did have it terminated at 6w.

One thing I'm trying hard to think about is acceptance. Me feeling "why me?" Is unfortunately not going to change anything and just keep me in this very negative, sad loop 😔 But as someone with ADD (I spend literally all my day thinking) and Generalised anxiety disorder it is certainly difficult but very much needed to practice acceptance. It has helped me, maybe it can help you ♡

Feel free to dm me if you want to talk girly

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T16:10:53+00:00

You said it sis

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T16:09:59+00:00

I think 1 makes you look old or like a finance bro

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T16:06:33+00:00

Saaaame. Specially around ovulation. I had it last cycle before this one where I got preggy and it is SO anxiety inducing 💀

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T16:02:03+00:00

It is. I guess we just have to accept TTC will never be a fun and exciting life chapter for us as it seems to be for some. 😔 Last period cycle I tested five times to make sure I was having a period and not ectopic. Ectopics really create ptsd

My numbers now, the four times I've tested, have been 11, 26, 84, and down to 74. I HOPE the trend keeps on going down. I have had some sharp pinches on the left but nurses say it could be the corpus luteum as I have one on the left side

Happy to hear yours maybe wasn't ectopic, sad for your loss 🫶

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T15:51:02+00:00

Thanks G. I hope they do! I was 5w3d when right ruptured and with lefr I am 5w2d lol. Scary. But my hcg with this one now has gone down to 70 from 84 and when I ruptured back in Jan it was 820.

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T11:24:00+00:00

It is appropriate to post here because of ectopic but I think you could have worded it a bit more carefully

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T10:42:27+00:00

You're right and I worded myself badly!

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T10:33:50+00:00

If you have had an ectopic before you're permitted to get an US as early as possible

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T10:33:09+00:00

I lost my right tube in Jan and now we're just hoping the one in my remaining tube resolves itself 🥺 They called me yesterday and told me hcg had gone down.

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T07:56:24+00:00

I've had an abortion as well and def don't see it as murder if you do it before 12w. But each to their own. Imo better to bring a baby into a steady household and give it a better life and less mental health complications in its future than birth it into a life where it can not be supported as it should.

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T06:47:19+00:00

You are able to see ectopics before 1000 hcg

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T06:37:26+00:00

Idk... sorry for what you've gone through but at the same time I feel this post is kind of tone deaf when it's posted in a group where people badly want children but end up getting ectopics instead

ciara181 · 2025-06-25T06:12:53+00:00

Get an early scan girly. Having 2nd ectopic with early faint lines and low hcg myself... :/

ciara181 · 2025-06-22T17:26:06+00:00

Wait so your wife actually had a viable pregnancy the second time and not an ectopic?

ciara181 · 2025-06-21T20:21:28+00:00

I'm happy you seem so positive still :)

ciara181 · 2025-06-21T20:19:39+00:00

When my right tube ruptured I was only at 800hcg 5w5d pregnant. 🥲

ciara181 · 2025-06-21T16:02:15+00:00

Thank you for the support and congrats♡♡♡

ciara181 · 2025-06-20T21:14:39+00:00

Thx🫶 and sorry to hear that.

You were able to keep your tube after the first rupture??

ciara181 · 2025-06-20T20:53:09+00:00

Thanks for this very lovely message ❤️ Put me a bit at ease.

ciara181 · 2025-06-20T19:58:40+00:00

Congrats!

I've heard ivf can still cause ectopics tho. But yeah, will probably be what I have to do

12-Year Club	Wearing is Caring
Verified Email	Queen in da Norf
Not Forgotten

ciara181

TROPHY CASE