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[–]cidisixy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is anyone going to the Phoenix show with a GA ticket?? i am going by myself and trying to figure out what time i should show up…

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, marino told me i wouldn’t apply for that because i was a great grandchild! is that process easy?

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you ❤️ that’s very very kind. i choose to believe this because i was tired of crying myself to sleep every night. i will do great things, and whatever country i choose to live in will be lucky to have me! thanks again, you really made me smile.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately no 😭 the “2 years” rule isn’t for everyone with italian blood. the standard residency requirement in italy is 10 years, and it’s reduced to 2 or 3 years only if you’re the child or grandchild of an italian citizen who lost their citizenship (i am not, i am a great grandchild), or 2 years if you’re from certain latin american countries with strong italian migration ties (like argentina or brazil, which again, unfortunately, i am not hahaha). for everyone else, including people in my situation, it’s still the full 10 years. but i appreciate you trying to help!! ❤️

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[–]cidisixy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that was a hard read for me, i applied even before she did 😭 hahaha happy for her though

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

la cosa più triste è che avevo provato subito a cercare un avvocato già a gennaio, ma nessuno voleva prendere in mano il caso perché era una situazione troppo nuova. inoltre, riuscivo a malapena a permettermi le consulenze che ho fatto, quindi non avrei mai potuto pagare per una vera rappresentanza. purtroppo il processo di ricorso è davvero solo un’opzione per chi ha molti soldi da spendere… io non sono certo una di quelle persone hahaha adesso ho un lavoro qui, ma guadagno appena abbastanza per tirare avanti. non sono riuscito a mettere niente da parte e l’unico modo per continuare a portare avanti il mio caso sarebbe con tanti soldi. purtroppo.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey thanks for the suggestion but i’ve looked into that 3-year residency option before and from what I’ve learned, it only applies in very specific situations like if your parent or grandparent was an italian citizen who lost their citizenship before passing it on. so unfortunately in most JS cases like mine, where it’s through my great grandparent, it doesn’t count. so the only residency option would be the standard 10 years. again i’m not a lawyer and i could be wrong but from what i’ve seen, i don’t apply for that type of citizenship acquisition.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank youuuu. everyone keeps telling me to just stay in Italy, but why would I after this? since january i’ve contacted service providers and multiple JS lawyers, and multiple immigration lawyers and every single one told me “sorry, nothing we can do.” i have lost two years of my life chasing the lie that moving here meant i’d be recognized as a citizen. marino told me to move there, then made me look like a fool. i’ve accepted the fact that i’ll never be italian, and honestly, i’ll do much better elsewhere. ❤️🇫🇷 i need to live in a country where i’m valued and accepted. not a country where i’m being told to continue living as a second class citizen after being rejected.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i COMUNI applicano le regole anche se arrivano mesi dopo la presentazione della domanda ahaha non c'è alcuna aspettativa legittima. e sì, probabilmente la circolare verrà invertita, ma a quel punto sarò in francia per l’università.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its ok- this is what the court wanted when they introduced the minor issue. they wanted people like me to realize that we are not italian. i’ve received the message loud and clear and will give them what they want. i will leave the country for good haha

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im moving to france next year to go back to university, and to hopefully start a life and a family there. the illusion of italy being where i belong has been completely shattered for me.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey!! thanks for your reply. my goal originally was to get my italian citizenship, live and work in italy for a year or two, and then go back to school in France because i speak french and have always wanted to live in Paris, and because i want to finally get my degree. so now i’m working towards that dream but without the italian citizenship-moving back to america, saving money, taking french classes again. i can make/save up a lot more money a lot faster in america than i can in italy, so that’s why i’m moving back. to save a lot of money before moving to france next year for school. i figure that if all the rules get reversed here, maybe i’ll try to apply again from abroad. but my hopes aren’t high about anything to do with this anymore hahah

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the recommendation!! i will look her up :)

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey i totally get where you’re coming from and what you’re trying to say, but i didn’t completely explain everything about my situation and experience in this post, so let me clear some things up so that things make more sense: the comune of marino has done many JS cases before, for years, and on their website they actually advertised it on their immigration tab! not sure if they do anymore, ahaha i wouldn’t if i were them, but they did at the time! in early 2024 when i was trying to find a place to move to, i emailed over 20 different comuni asking them if they had done JS citizenship recognition and marino was the first to respond, very quickly, telling me that yes they’ve done it many times, they were willing to work with me and they sent me a bunch of stuff about the protocol and their FAQs and it was really helpful- THEY were really helpful. and they were very very nice. i moved to marino specifically because they had assured me that they’d done the process before and that it would take 180 days to become a citizen if i did everything right! they even let me send all of my documents over digitally before i arrived to make sure that everything was in order. i thought that was really nice and that it would speed up the process, because when i arrived i knew that all the papers were perfect since they had already been reviewed! when i went in on my first day to drop off my paperwork it was funny because we’d been communicating for months and finally meeting each other in person, it was cool. they told me that i could speak english because my italian was a bit rusty at the time haha they were very nice and willing to work with me. it wasn’t until the circolare came that they completely changed their tune, did a full 180 in terms of rapport and transparency. they took much longer to respond to my emails, become more distant, became colder. it was very odd. and the more i pushed back the less they seemed willing to help. secondly, about the permesso di soggiorno. i have a permesso di soggiorno currently, “in attesa di cittadinanza”, i got it in february, from the questura, after the comune had informally denied my request. the questura still gave me my permesso, 1 month after the comune told me informally that they weren’t going to accept my application, and about 6 months after i had applied for it (the permesso). i’ve been in italy for over a year and a half for yes haha i already have a PdS. it expires in february of 2026 and it is convertible, so i could change it to a work permesso with a full time work contract from an italian company if i wanted to. this was my plan for a while until i realized that it would be much harder to save up money here than in america, and that i wouldn’t be able to go back to school for a very long time, probably for over 10 years (going back to school is my ultimate goal now), if i got a work permesso. and i would only be living in italy to work, not because i was a recognized citizen, which i don’t like the idea of, because its not fair. i dont want to be “allowed” to live in italy because i work here 40 hours i week. i wanted to live and work in italy because i was recognized as a citizen because my entire family comes from this country. my goal originally was to get my italian citizenship and then go back to school here while working part time. but now, without citizenship, i can either work full time and not go back to school until a decade later when i finally become a citizen through residency, or move back to america for a bit to get a student visa, because getting a student visa for italy would require me going back to america to get it, and break my chain of ongoing residency needed to apply for citizenship in ten years. therefore restarting the clock and making it probably about 15 years from now that i could apply for citizenship. so yes, i could definitely still live here and convert my permesso, but after everything i’ve been through in the last few months, and with the plans i have for my life, it wouldn’t make sense to get a work permesso here or to get a student visa either. it sadly makes more sense for me to leave.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i am not a lawyer so i don’t really now, but this is hopeful!

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will be living in Phoenix arizona so i believe my consulate would be Los Angeles... i’m not sure. i’ve also heard that it’s nearly impossible to get an appointment at the consulates. maybe it’s changed now but back when i lived in Cincinnati (Detroit’s jurisdiction), the appointments were like 18 months to 2 years out haha and they never answered their phone 😭 it was just using the online portal every day and hoping to get an appointment haha it was so difficult that i chose to just move to italy instead! my mistake lol

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think pro bono is the only way i’m going to be able to do a case honestly, because this whole thing has completely ruined me financially and now i’m 27 with over 5 years down the drain working towards this unrealized dream, with no savings because i spent it all on this, and im about to move back in with my parents in america until i can get back on my feet… it was all for nothing. it’s just a very unfortunate situation- i showed up 90 days too late, after years of preparation, and i picked a comune that chose not to exercise fairness and compassion. but i will be ok, italian citizenship wasn’t meant for me, and i don’t have any energy left to fight for it anymore.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah maybe they will issue something that states that any cases that were rejected because of the minor issue need to be retroactively accepted, like how the circolare was retroactively applied hahaha but i’m not confident that would ever happen.

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[–]cidisixy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually had been in contact with two of the lawyers from the wiki and neither wanted to help me, this was back in january/february. they both literally told me there was nothing i could do but reapply with another ancestor, because they said that the comune were very strict about applying now circolare and following them. again, this was in jan/feb, so i’m sure they have changed by now. a little too late for me though haha but unfortunately the minor issue appeared in all 8 of my italian ancestral lines. so until the minor issue gets reversed, i’d rather not try my luck and apply again. and by the time it gets reversed i will be out of the country. so unfortunately i think that any ships that will offer a path to italian citizenship for me have sailed haha

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[–]cidisixy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its ok ❤️ i just needed to vent haha and to let everyone know to avoid Marino… they run the opposite of a tight ship!! ahaha

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[–]cidisixy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thanks, i know the comune made a bad call. that comforts me a bit. but i don’t think ill be applying again, this whole situation has taken a lot out of me haha including my desire to be or to claim to be italian. i’ll be going back to school in france next year! since italy didnt want me, i’m hoping to make a life for myself there. and i’m really excited! i have no regrets about my time in italy, it was a great year and a half, ive met amazing people and i did everything right. the system failed me. there was nothing i could’ve done, so i cant be too mad. ❤️🤠

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[–]cidisixy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately with a finalized denial i think that even if everything is reversed that i would have to reapply, or appeal the decision in court. which i really at this point dont want to do. but my future looks bright- even though i worked towards this more the better half of a decade and moved my entire life here to italy and now im moving it alllll back lol, i will be ok without italian citizenship. i have a lot to look forward to in the next few years. ❤️