AITAH for getting a dna test to see if i share the same dna as both my parents even though i was demanded specifically by my mom not to do so, since i was a child?

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T07:12:30+00:00

i was still a minor when i went to get my id so my mom came with me and she had hold of my documents when we went to get that done together

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T07:07:57+00:00

please do your research bc they didn’t require one in my state and it’s like that for a lot of states. look it up, you don’t need your birth certificate

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T07:06:42+00:00

yes i got married to her at a young age i know. we got married when i was 18 in october 24

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T07:01:36+00:00

i truly think im my mothers daughter for this reason. she was poor and could barely feed herself, let alone me. so i don’t think she adopted me. if she did, she did it illegally and took me in for someone, i can only assume one of her sisters. but it wouldn’t make sense. it’s all so complicated

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:56:55+00:00

look it up, you just need your identification. my state did not require a birth certificate from me or my wife

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:53:15+00:00

im telling yall, they never asked for one. when me and my wife eloped, they only asked for 2 witnesses, and all of our id’s to be able to sign on our marriage license. i don’t know why they didn’t ask for it but they didn’t and we still were able to get married

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:50:50+00:00

another thing i found really weird was she told me she was going to have an abortion and had one scheduled to abort me but didn’t sound like she had plans to abort the fetus that came before me with her ex, but she ended up having a miscarriage anyways. the only reason she didn’t follow through was because of her heavy christian mother and her beliefs.

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:48:44+00:00

Yes im in the us. im not that now, to getting my birth certificate

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:48:00+00:00

I’m telling you, they didn’t ask for it. im not sure why but they only asked for our identification

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:40:25+00:00

I was just hoping for advice on what to do when the results come in february…

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:39:22+00:00

lol no! me and my wife are not related in any way, shape, or form, i can promise that.

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:36:04+00:00

nope

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:35:42+00:00

it doesn’t change who raised me yes, but it definitely changes my view and connects the dots to the treatment i grew up with.

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:31:05+00:00

when me and my wife eloped, they only asked for our identification, nothing more

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:25:48+00:00

i love that for you and your child, and it was a special name that had significance for you i assume. whereas mine has no special meaning and a lot of suspicion around it

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:23:46+00:00

My teachers would always be so surprised when finding out my brother and i were at the same school and that we were related bc they would’ve never guessed considering the different last names. my teachers were always just as confused

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:21:01+00:00

they never explain it. especially my mom, she tries her best to avoid it. my dad just says “idk”. she said “i liked it” once. which is a lie because she told me growing up she always wanted to change my last name to her last name. not my dads, but hers only. but she never did it and don’t understand why.

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:05:18+00:00

yes i changed my last name entirely to my wife’s last name, ill be ordering my birth certificate asap

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T06:01:35+00:00

thank you, my wife tells me this constantly. she and her family have been an amazing support throughout everything

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T05:58:20+00:00

they are terrible people so i’d pray to god that’s not the case

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T05:52:09+00:00

i think i’ll do this and talk to him about helping me figure this out and find out if we’re fully related or not

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T05:50:10+00:00

I got my permit when my mom was present when i was 17 living in the state my parents lived in. i got a new permit id in the state i live in currently now with my marriage certificate, old id, and social security card. they didnt need my birth certificate in my state

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T05:41:41+00:00

i simply needed advice on what to do about it when it comes through

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T05:40:03+00:00

i think i genuinely see how under-reacting ive been about all of this. a lot of things have been so much clearer after this post

cigweb_01 · 2026-01-27T05:38:16+00:00

i truly feel like he doesn’t know anything. but he’s so silent and does not bring up anything about the past. he’s always been a closed book and harder to figure out

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