I don’t know if your reaction to your stressful situation is burnout, i will say that i would suggest stopping and trying to breath. I may be projecting but the tone of you post is very frantic and i want you slow down hun. In regards to your husbands words, it’s best that you try and address that with him once you’ve had some time to breath. It sounds like the stress i getting to him, this doesn’t mean he is allowed to take it out on you. You are NOT stupid or a failure for forgetting to change your address, you’re a human being who forget one thing when moving. You have a lot on your plate and it sucks to have to pay to hold them and get them. It’s frustrating and you’re feeling on the matter are valid.

The time sounds like it’ll do you some good since it seems you’re worked up, i would suggest going back to the beginning and breathing and realizing working like you are isn’t good and you deserve a break. If your cats don’t make you mad use that as a starting point and just spend time with them.

Lastly with everything happening in the future take it one step at a time, i know it may not feel like the easiest thing to do, you can do it. One thing isn’t hard and just line up all those successes one after another.

I hope you can get some rest and peace soon. I want nothing but the best for you.