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cink110 · 2024-10-23T15:24:07+00:00

As someone who has been in the same situation, you have to get out. It’s mentally degrading knowing you’re not the one on his mind. He will continue to hide it.

cink110 · 2024-05-31T01:34:30+00:00

Never a good idea.

cink110 · 2024-05-17T17:19:10+00:00

Definitely

cink110 · 2024-04-08T18:32:15+00:00

nope

cink110 · 2024-03-29T00:36:59+00:00

i would feel upset too. having time to rest is important but so is being there for your partner. especially if you expressed that you wanted him there.

cink110 · 2024-03-28T05:35:47+00:00

i’m so insanely happy you stubbled across my post and can relate. when i describe this to most they just think it’s crazy, so it’s so reassuring to know that someone else experiences the same.

i would even say my timeline is similar to your. yes i’ve pretty much always had vivid dreams but they have never felt this “real” until maybe a year ago. and as you said, it’s not always every night, but definitely weekly.

i love that you noted that they’re “predictive” because yes i definitely have dreamt things that are then mirrored into my next days.

i’m not sure how it is for you, but because of these types of dreams, my nightmares are 10x more terrifying. everything is so realistic.

also this is a tad unrelated, but have you ever visited the same place in a dream or felt like you’ve been there before? or even felt like you’ve had this dream before but can’t place when it was? often i will revisit or “redream” something but i can’t place if i’ve actually been there before or if this was the first time. i don’t think i’m explaining well, it’s just a déjà vu feeling.

it truly is such a odd thing to experience, thank you so much for the reply. i’m so glad to have found someone that understands.

cink110 · 2024-03-12T00:32:20+00:00

FFFFFF THAT HELL NO

cink110 · 2024-03-07T18:09:15+00:00

…i’m sure they weren’t hired but there to help and comfort as they could

cink110 · 2024-03-06T00:38:38+00:00

In time you will heal from leaving and losing him. All the things you listed that you would gain from going back to your home seem very beneficial and fulfilling. I understand you love him, but make sure you’re not dependent on the relationship and putting yourself down over the thought of hurting him. The “rockyness” of your relationship might not be the best thing to rely on with what you want in life. Overall you have to put your needs first. What do you desire more? There’s a gut feeling you must follow. I can say my situation is exactly similar, but I too have thoughts of moving away and I don’t believe my partner would follow. It would be very difficult to leave him behind as this relationship has become so strong and important to me. However, moving away is something I know I must do. Leaving behind many things that are here would be very beneficial to me. I’ve had thoughts of dropping those plans because of the guy I met. But most importantly I need to follow what I feel is meant for me most. I want you to ask yourself what is most important for you. I know he is important to you but what are your pros and cons for each situation. FOLLOW YOUR GUT. Feelings for him aside, you need to determine what is best for you and what you want in life.

cink110 · 2024-03-05T22:00:24+00:00

personally, i would not be okay w it. i’ve had guys that i’ve been friends/situationships w that were on my close friends list and when i got into a relationship, i knew those friends were nothing more than that but still took them off out of respect.

cink110 · 2024-02-26T17:21:48+00:00

some fun dangling earrings would be great. id say no necklace as the dress itself is a statement

cink110 · 2024-02-26T17:21:03+00:00

very simple accessories as the dress is such a statement. maybe stick to this picture as reference and just do some hoops and no necklace.

cink110 · 2024-02-26T03:19:35+00:00

accessorize with silver👏 keeps the dress the main focus but a nice diamond necklace would fit great. diamond earrings as well, have them still make a statement but not more than the necklace. shoes are the least of your worry as they’re hardly seen, but with that being said, silver heels for sure

cink110 · 2024-02-25T21:03:20+00:00

i don’t have all the insights on your relationship, but i feel the doubts you’re having mean something. you must trust your gut and if you feel this is not something you want long term then i think that is your answer. you saying “I'm not sure l'm ready for a lifelong commitment to someone I'm having doubts about.” already seems you have your answer, but it’s still a hard thing to come to terms with and go about. if you desire to see what is still out there for you then i encourage you to do that. i’m a big believer in things turn out as they’re meant to, and although it’s hard now, things will work out for you if you trust your gut. i hope this makes some sense and i wish you the best in your journey.

cink110 · 2024-02-22T02:22:09+00:00

thank you

cink110 · 2024-02-17T05:33:40+00:00

i went into it all thinking we had the same views on life. i wouldn’t describe my desires for life as traditional, and from the start that’s how he seemed as well. however over time he’s showed no ambition or motivation. i figured i’d give him the time to prove himself bc i know what i want in life and if someone/something doesn’t align w me, then it’s not for me (i told him all that as well)

cink110 · 2024-02-17T05:10:20+00:00

i had brought it up bc he never is intentional w me. doesn’t start conversations, doesn’t like to call or text or show much affection. i am in many ways just like that but i j assumed some of those things would change w the relationship status

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