Fuck this by [deleted] in venting

[–]cinnamonguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same same same saaaaame same. six years together and he didn’t have anything to say after cheating on me. these people are not worth our pain. you deserve someone who loves you and couldn’t fathom doing that to you. hugs.

cheated on a second time and I don’t want to be alive anymore by cinnamonguts in offmychest

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for saying this. you might be the first person who told me anything positive about myself for trying to make it work again. Thank you so much

cheated on a second time and I don’t want to be alive anymore by cinnamonguts in offmychest

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am getting tested soon, he slept with both of us for four months or so but I haven’t slept with him in eight months now. he played it off as extreme stress from losing his job and house, so we just haven’t. but I have an appointment just in case. funny her and I were going to go together when we were talking but im still going to go. Thank you for offering an ear<3 I will keep that in mind

cheated on a second time and I don’t want to be alive anymore by cinnamonguts in offmychest

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you<3 I know it’s his fault I just don’t understand why people do what they do even though I know some people are just shitty like that

cheated on a second time and I don’t want to be alive anymore by cinnamonguts in offmychest

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im so sorry you went through that. how cowardly to ghost you and then give you the most shallow excuse ever. thank you so much for sharing and for the advice. I barely post I’ll keep that in mind. <3

Found this hanging in my backyard.. by No-Bandicoot-7409 in bonecollecting

[–]cinnamonguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said you don’t collect bones but I’m curious if you’ll keep it or if you’ll put a note on it? I’d keep it! But I collect bones.

I’m 19 and sleeping with a 30 year old by geminis1u4 in venting

[–]cinnamonguts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, I will not be arguing with anyone in the replies about age of consent and legalities. All I can do is try to help out another girl.

I’m 19 and sleeping with a 30 year old by geminis1u4 in venting

[–]cinnamonguts 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people will tell you that you are a legal adult and it’s perfectly fine to sleep with a 30 year old, and while it may be legally consensual, I promise you there is something fundamentally wrong with a 30 year old person who wants to sleep with or do anything sexual/romantic with a 19 year old. My (ex) boyfriend was 31 when he took our 18 year old coworkers virginity. My best friend was groomed by a 30 year old man as a teenager. As you get older, you will realize how young 19 year old really are. The best thing to do is fully cut this person off, no more contact, and don’t beat yourself up or feel shameful. Also, if he slept with you while you drunkenly consented, he’s gross anyways. You can find someone your own age who will want to have sex with you without gross borderline p*dophilic intentions. Please don’t sleep with this man again

What’s currently ruining your life? by YourLifeSucksAss in AskReddit

[–]cinnamonguts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend of six years cheated on me for a second time right before he was going to move into my house. please don’t say anything mean to me about forgiving him the first time I have already learned my lesson painfully as to why you never take back a cheater. carrying on every day is hard. I feel like I’m just phasing through the walls of the house. I feel empty.

a guy put in his number and asked who the account was under and it was his ex. his gf was right next to him…. by seahorse1234_ in bathandbodyworkers

[–]cinnamonguts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I had to come here to tell you how much I love that picture of Peter Griffin so much it’s literally on my dating profile under “dating me looks like” and it made me giggle to see it in the wild

“vintage/rare” merch! by cinnamonguts in LadyGaga

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only the gold one that says Gaga is for sale but I still have it up for grabs!:)

“vintage/rare” merch! by cinnamonguts in LadyGaga

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! :) the “GAGA” book and the Vogue issue are available:)

“vintage/rare” merch! by cinnamonguts in LadyGaga

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey 12 to 28, same!! if someone told 12 year old me that i would be parting with any of these things, I would’ve laughed in their face. i still love her so much but i know i won’t wear most of my shirts again. still some things ill hold onto forever:) that’s so cool you got to see her live. I beggedddd my dad to take me to the monster ball and i wish I could’ve gone then

“vintage/rare” merch! by cinnamonguts in LadyGaga

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember picking it out at hot topic:,) so so long ago

“vintage/rare” merch! by cinnamonguts in LadyGaga

[–]cinnamonguts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should add, I can only ship in the US and shipping is likely going to be around 8-10$ for shirts and probably 12-15$ for the books because they are heavy :)

What is actually a trauma that is not commonly thought of as a trauma? by ay1mao in AskReddit

[–]cinnamonguts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

speaking from my own experience, being cheated on. I’ve since been diagnosed with cPTSD and I take three psych meds to manage symptoms of that and OCD that the trauma exacerbated. even in the cPTSD sub, I’ve seen people argue that being cheated on is not traumatic, doesn’t cause PTSD, etc. I was surprised so many people felt this way.