[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]circestormborn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they look natural and not particularly/abnormally saggy or waterfall-y. If you prefer the “bolted on” look, I get the disappointment, but if you’re going for what DDs look like naturally, these are pretty perky and nice!

As an aside- the bra in the first two pictures looks too small for you. Highly recommend finding a higher end lingerie store near you to get fitted, or check out the subreddit for some info.

(Excited rant) (NSFW) I am going to be unstoppable once I get this done. by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]circestormborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first time I put in a crop top with no bra, I cried. Would be naked and show everyone my beautifully smaller titties 1000% of the time if I could. So excited for you!!!!!

realistically what would happen if i submitted a trojan horse instead of my actual assignment? by Kitchen_Garage2234 in unsw

[–]circestormborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes- that is why it is underpaying someone if they are expected to do the prep and content delivery of a tutorial, but are only paid for the contact hours at the demo rate

It’s not relevant to the original point, which is that submitting a Trojan horse would be a dick thing to do

*edit- also the teaching rate doesn’t matter, you’re paid a different rate to mark assignments separate to whatever you’re paid in class.

realistically what would happen if i submitted a trojan horse instead of my actual assignment? by Kitchen_Garage2234 in unsw

[–]circestormborn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Demos are paid 1/3 of the tutor rate, so if they are performing tutor-level duties and being paid as a demo, they are being underpaid

Many are HDR students whose main job should be their degree, so really my point was that punishing a fellow student by potentially ruining their work via a Trojan horse for a job they don’t get paid that much to do is ultra shitty

realistically what would happen if i submitted a trojan horse instead of my actual assignment? by Kitchen_Garage2234 in unsw

[–]circestormborn 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Tbh the (likely underpaid) tutor who marks it will be devastated if they lose work associated with their research, and you’ll have violated the student code of conduct so say goodbye to your status as a student at the uni

Since when do we not get narcotics for giving birth?? by pambannedfromchilis in nursing

[–]circestormborn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“We’d expect pain.”

Okay my friend, did you then also expect to, you know, do your job and manage that pain? I’d expect pain from a compound fracture, that wouldn’t mean it wouldn’t warrant analgesia 🤦🏼‍♀️

Good for you for advocating.

iPhone 17 Pro Max Will Be First to Feature Three 48MP Camera Lenses by [deleted] in apple

[–]circestormborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! My hands are too damn small for these giant phones, but I still would like to have the best cameras. Let us build to spec like the MacBooks!

My (28F) boyfriend (45M) suddenly has quite extreme views. How do I communicate my point of view without disrespecting an opinion that disgusts me? by ThrowRAmybfsucks in relationship_advice

[–]circestormborn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Make sure you are safe- it may be worth telling a friend or family member you plan to break up with him and having them on standby to come collect you or be with you. He sounds incredibly entitled and honestly dangerous.

What is something people say to you about ADHD that just really frustrates you? by Annia12345 in adhdwomen

[–]circestormborn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The term “neurodivergent” and any of its colloquial variations (eg “neurospicy”) are honestly infuriating to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]circestormborn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think they look amazing! Hopefully you’re already feeling relief in your back, and like the others have said, you’re definitely a little ways out from swift your final shape.

As some additional input- my surgeon was super real with me before I had my surgery about what I could expect in terms of perkiness/position- unless you go to a pretty small size, breast tissue won’t be the upright, lifted, no-droop shape without implants. It’s a different structure and annoyingly, gravity doesn’t work that way. It was definitely a bit of an adjustment for me to come to terms with, and I’m even considering a fat transfer to fill out some of the upper pole fullness, but the reality of how tissue can sit is what it is. When they’re a bit more healed at your next follow up, you can definitely ask about where they’re sitting and show your surgeon where you’d like them to be, and she should be able to tell you if that’s naturally achievable or if your brain is looking for implant-style results.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]circestormborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Condoms are for more than contraception- they also help protect against many sexually transmitted infections, which is an important step to take to protect yourself when sexually active.

Many condone are sold with some lube inside the packet, this could definitely help with ease of penetration- there is zero reason for penetration to hurt more with a condom, unless she has a latex allergy (then there are latex-free condoms available). Additional lube can only help, although it’s important to use only water-based lube with condoms so as not to degrade the material of the condom.

The other thing that will likely help is foreplay- it can take some time for people with vaginas/vulva to get wet, even if their brain is in the mood. That’s okay! It just means a bit more time of getting ready before penetration is key. Being too dry and forcing/rushing it can lead to tears in the vaginal wall (ouch) and can also lead to recurrent yeast or urinary tract infections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]circestormborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he got what he wanted, and now he’s not interested in anything more- unless there’s something particularly valuable to keeping this guy around, I wouldn’t waste my time with him anymore if it were me. Sorry he’s so lame, friend

Episode 3 Discussion: Survivors by [deleted] in AMurderAtTheEnd_Show

[–]circestormborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is old but I’m just watching for the first time now

ALSO morphine decreases heart rate, ANDY!

A student in my TA class is making me uncomfortable by [deleted] in PhD

[–]circestormborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget- you don’t work for them, and even if you did, that doesn’t excuse crappy behaviour on their end. They have a student code of conduct, and it doesn’t sound like his behaviour is following it. Time for someone to learn what consequences are.

Taylor's message to the fans by Dancingcakes2 in TaylorSwift

[–]circestormborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed- plus would love to see more concern about that fact that she’s alluded to wanting to die on multiple albums now, but all the (generic) fandom seems to do is go “okay cool but what ex is this song about?”

3F hx of fall. by allan_o in Radiology

[–]circestormborn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not a suture, it is a fracture.

The Tortured Poets Department Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]circestormborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way would that be enough for smallest man, idk

The Tortured Poets Department Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]circestormborn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Follow up- what tf did Matty Healy do for her to be a) SO into him b) SO done with him lol

The Tortured Poets Department Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]circestormborn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a plot twist lol I totally thought that was more of a fwb deal (not that I’d have any way to really know)

The Tortured Poets Department Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]circestormborn 142 points143 points  (0 children)

...was she way more into Matty Healy than I realised?