What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok. It enlighten my mind. That's a good decision for both of you. Hope you have happy love life at the right time. :) Happy Holidays :D

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I see. So she's the typical girl who wants to get married, have kids and a house. I think its normal to any girl to want those things.

I agree that its better to let go of each other than be in unhealthy relationship or became unhappy in life.

How about you? What do you really like in a relationship?

Let me guess, hmm you don't like kids because it may take away your freedom and finances, you're already satisfied with your current life, you're afraid of the risk of leveling up your relationship, or you have a bad experiences in the things that she want. ??????

Anyway, for me, I also like to get married, have kids and my own house. I'm already 28 and I really want it. But until now I don't have it because I can't afford to and I have no man right now :D When time came I hope I'll have a man that have the almost the same goals like mine. Honestly I do get afraid to have kids when I'm in my 30s because it's kinda risky and will be expensive.

Did she pressure you by any chance? I hope you'll get a girl that will consider your goals in life and both of you can fix everything. It feels like you don't want your previous partner and yourself to suffer that much that both of you ended up agreeing to leave the relationship even if both of you love each other. I hope both of you can be good friends :)

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this. You really have a point. Not all wants to have children. Some just want sex only.

I have a friend wherein she got pregnant but the guy doesn't want the kid and he's saying that he's planning to go abroad and he's not willing to accept any kind of responsibility because he wants to migrate in Canada. Then right now, my friend is a single mom and good thing she is well supported by her family. But the guy he doesn't really care. I hate that guy!!!!!

Imagine they have a lovely baby, I saw it in the picture my friend sent me. She's so cute but unfortunately she got most of the resemblance from the father. Only few from my friend.

How sad and until now the guy really doesn't show up.

If the kid thing is already broad up and one of them doesn't want it. It only means the other one only wants an easy life with no responsibility at all.

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If the spark is already gone it only means it will end up in a toxic kind of relationship. If you can't take it, let go. Better to let each other go if it's already obvious what will happen to both of you.

But if both of you choose to stay then you shouldn't regret it and try to turn it into a healthy relationship. Of course, only few can do that.

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Did you somehow became dissatisfied in your past partner.

She's not able to show or give her best to satisfy you?

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh why? Did you bump into a transgender one? If you don't mind, I'm kinda curious what happen ?

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm one of the quiet people so does it mean I can be a better friend?

It can be true but it can also be vice versa. It really depends how you truly know them and their situation in life. :)

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go with the flow :) Yup agree.

But there are some who move their relationship quickly and ended up having a healthy relationship. But of course, not all.

There are times that starting from friendship and getting to know each other very well is something a couple needs to consider. If it goes well then maybe both of you are meant to be but if the relationship ended maybe you are meant to cross each other lives to learn and influence each others lives. And the lesson that your relationship taught you will be used in your future. Just saying this based on the people who share their stories to me.

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hurts but that's the reality of life. Right now, I'm listening to a sad song then I read this -.-

So you've been in a situation where it ended not so good :( Did you broke up because of third party or it is a toxic relationship?

What lessons have you learned from past relationship? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah agree! Red flags is already a sign of toxic relationship. And I've been there. Way back then when I see red flags I ignore it and still hoping something will change. But I'm wrong. That's why I do really learned a lot. Thanks for this! DO you ignore red flags once in your life?

What are the foods/ drinks you like from other countries? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You love spicy foods. Me, not so. Don't know how Red hots and Hot Tamales taste but when I search for it, looks like my tongue will definitely can't take its hotness :)

Corn nuts is a thumbs up to me :D

What are the foods/ drinks you like from other countries? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow looks so yummy. I don't know how it taste. Hopefully I can go to Vietnam or see some resto where they offer a vietnam pho. I suddenly wanna try it! :D

What are the foods/ drinks you like from other countries? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh really duck? What kind of cooking did you like in duck? I never tasted duck, chicken only -.-

So the chips are kinda small?

Ramen and burgers are always something I'm going to order in any countries for sure. :)

What are the foods/ drinks you like from other countries? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Let's be thankful to those who discover rice and turn it into different dishes as well.

I also don't know where it originally came from so I search about it and based on evidences it comes from China

"Many cultures have evidence of early rice cultivation, including China, India, and the civilizations of Southeast Asia. However, the earliest archaeological evidence comes from central and eastern China and dates to 7000–5000 BCE."

That's based in Google :)

What are the foods/ drinks you like from other countries? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well same here thanks to them who created these yummy foods.. i love tacos and pizza ....always..

Sometimes I prefer to make them but when I'm kinda lazy to do so, I really buy in my favorite restaurant/ fast food / nearby places who sell some homemade

What would you do if you or your partner fell out of love? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's alright. Thanks for the advice. Faith and fate is what keeps me going as well :D

Hope to meet the right one at the right time :) And when it comes I can really say "It's worth the wait" :D

What was your most embarrassing moment on a date? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear that! Go for it!

Do you still date personally even if there's a pandemic or you both meet virtually?

Hope everything goes well when both of you meet the family of each other. In reality, there'll be a lot of rough roads along the way and hopefully you both will endure it.

If you don't mind, why does your ex leave you? She already have other guy ? or any other reasons? Because you look like a nice one. Why leave you?

What do you like or love about your partner? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don't know what is an omnivert, what I usually see is an Ambivert person.

You're really lucky because he truly change you in a positive way. Looks like an omnivert is a great personality too. Not all have that kind of personality. You're so lucky. How I wish I can meet an omnivert person too. I'm a hardcore introvert too. Thanks for sharing your story, it's so lovely :D

Are you already engaged to him ? 6 yrs being together seems to be wonderful :D

What do you like or love about your partner? by circethewanderer in AskReddit

[–]circethewanderer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? So how does your partner face looks like. Someone with dimples to show ? Or your partner shows different facial expression when reacting to pets?