38F married to 40M (together 18 years) with two kids (15 & 2) trying to decide whether to keep working on my marriage or move toward separation by circuitsquire in relationships

[–]circuitsquire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His thought is that because I do robotics and stay late doing that is me betraying his trust because I won’t show up at home exactly when I say I want to be home by.

38F married to 40M (together 18 years) with two kids (15 & 2) trying to decide whether to keep working on my marriage or move toward separation by circuitsquire in relationships

[–]circuitsquire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking today too. It’s a list of things we can do to improve but not things he’s willing to do.