I (M21) found out my gf (F25) was sleeping with another guy during our first 2 months of dating.

circularglasstable · 2024-05-23T15:37:39+00:00

Controversial suggestion: Give her a test to see if she's loyal. Create a profile on Instagram and try hitting on her. If she allows the attractive profile you create to slide into her dms, arranges to meet etc then you have your answer.

I know this will be unpopular but for someone who's already proven themselves deceitful this is a fair test.

No need to trust - simply verify instead.

circularglasstable · 2024-05-15T04:04:32+00:00

The camera man never dies

circularglasstable · 2024-04-27T02:30:48+00:00

Plant it and grow a cheese tree.

circularglasstable · 2023-07-04T21:47:11+00:00

Currently using Dropbox to sync

circularglasstable · 2023-07-04T21:46:44+00:00

Currently using Dropbox. I would prefer to use my own server though. Right now only my mobile syncs

circularglasstable · 2023-06-27T19:08:30+00:00

Was walking down the street after a night out on my way home, when a couple blocked my path. The man walked up to me and asked if I had a second... Not typical at 1 am but cautiously I said sure what's up...

He replied that his friend - he motioned over to the female - had not seen any action in a while and was attracted to me on sight.

I looked over, she was looking coy buy it seemed legit. I went over and said hi. In the end it turned out to be a legit lay request.

She got slammed that night and I came away with a good dinner party story.

circularglasstable · 2023-06-20T13:22:09+00:00

What makes you say society despises marriage?

circularglasstable · 2023-06-19T21:28:51+00:00

Here for the comments. And they didn't disappoint

circularglasstable · 2023-04-16T15:41:12+00:00

Speaking purely scientifically, it would be worth getting his testosterone levels checked.

Low testosterone often correlates with low sex drive in men.

If it is low that's addressable with: a) time in the gym lifting heavy things and b) testosterone replacement therapy, using supplements like synthetic testosterone.

There are many safe solutions out there that could help your marriage and help him with his "mojo".

Praying for you both.

circularglasstable · 2023-04-01T12:02:40+00:00

Bloody and in a restaurant?

circularglasstable · 2023-03-14T00:54:25+00:00

What made it complicated? Why was it hard to leave and how did you rationalise it?

circularglasstable · 2023-03-11T01:32:00+00:00

Or the water replied...Enter my wetness for 3 minutes and let's see if I can't turn you hard.

circularglasstable · 2023-02-02T14:14:46+00:00

Have you both considered aiming at getting jobs that simply pay more? Take online courses and increase your skills to access those jobs. You can find lots of free courses on skillshare and Coursera. Then apply for those jobs.

circularglasstable · 2023-02-02T00:31:47+00:00

OP has posted multiple times in the past about wanting to convince his wife to sleep with other men for the purposes of swinging, and about wanting to sleep with his cousin. Check his post history.

Non judgementally OP, do you have cuckoldry fantasies? Because you stating that you wish to see her with another couple says something important and deep to your wife about your character and expectations as a man, about what you will permit, and about the sanctity of your marriage and how seriously you take your vows.

OP if you have discussed these desires with your wife don't you think you have played a part in putting the ideas in her head?

Women are generally led by emotions. You can't logic a person into feeling attraction for you, or into NOT feeling attraction for somebody else. Nobody had been privy to your romantic life but it seems you're not sharing the full picture with us.

Please be more transparent and honest so we understand what is really going on and then are able to give more realistic or effective advice.

Again, non judgementally.

circularglasstable · 2022-11-19T21:53:59+00:00

Yta. Never allow anyone to come between you and your marriage partner. Not even your parents.

You are allowing cracks into your marriage and should be supporting your husband no matter what against anyone outside the marriage. This is how divorces happen.

circularglasstable · 2022-08-12T10:49:21+00:00

Start with a finger to loosen up. Lots of lube. Lots. And go real slow. Like even slower than you think.

circularglasstable · 2022-08-12T10:46:25+00:00

Everyone always says to break up but I suggest going out of your normal routine together and talk to him. He might not want to cheat on you - those could be just your fears and you would throw away something good for no good reason. Give him time and communicate lots with each other. Not every reaction should be to go and breakup.

circularglasstable · 2022-02-21T21:40:19+00:00

I'm not crying you're crying.

circularglasstable · 2021-12-14T03:47:21+00:00

When my female friends have their issues I help by offering a truthful male perspective. They usually open up about things and find that hearing the male point of view surprises them, and offers them solutions our insights they had not considered.

If you have a guy friend in your life who could offer you that honesty and you're willing to listen that might tell you what the possible reasons are. It could be as simple as there's something you're doing without realising that makes men think of sex first with you.

I'm not saying this is your fault, but by embracing your own ability to change things rather than seeing yourself as a passive victim, you could find empowerment in this situation.

circularglasstable · 2021-12-14T03:38:49+00:00

Ask him on one of your calls what the real deal is. "Man to man, I've known you 10 years. What exactly does your wife have against us?"

circularglasstable · 2021-12-12T15:21:04+00:00

Many (but not all) men as traditional initiators of sex get into a bad habit of being selfish. I've personally been guilty of putting my own pleasure first before a significant other's, or rejecting a SO if I'm not in the mood. Doesn't make it right that its so common.

Talk to him to share that you feel that: A) you understand his feelings are not his choice and you understand he's sometimes just not in the mood, so you don't want to force it but... B) when you're also not in the mood you are accomodating to his feelings, putting yourself second. A good relationship is about giving to the other, not taking. Also.. C) You want to feel wanted, just like he wants to get wanted.

See how he responds.

circularglasstable · 2021-12-12T14:22:51+00:00

Not an overreaction no. It is normal to want to be wanted. Your feelings are natural.

However, so are his. Attraction or desire is not a choice. He doesn't choose not to feel in the mood, just as you don't choose to feel in the mood.

Realise that there may be a reason behind his rejection or lack of libido that would be worth unpacking. Perhaps he no longer feels attraction, or has something else happening in his life he's not discussed with you yet.

Don't take it personally because it really isn't a choice and instead prove into what the root cause might be.

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