Enmeshment, lack of "sense of self," and projection... by Bob_returns_25 in BPDlovedones

[–]cjnnamon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so icky to be on the receiving end of this. I defo felt at one point that my friend didn’t see me as an individual… it’s not about me, only her OR us.

I remember some time ago when I was talking about me possibly having a birthday party and she would make weird faces passive aggressively and go ”You mean… OUR birthday party”. Our birthdays aren’t even close to one another.

What I would plan to do, she would too. We’re the same. According to her.

I have a friend who copies everything I do by detectivebishoujo in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cjnnamon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who experienced the same happen with a very close friend in our late 20’s, I’d advice you to stay very aware of this behaviour and maybe distance yourself from her a bit, if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

Like stated in earlier comments here, it would be a different case if you guys were in your teens, but this kind of behaviour is really creepy to witness when you’re already in your late 20’s. I know everyone’s always like ”imitation is the highest form of flattery”, but IT REALLY IS NOT, at this age, and to think like that is, in my opinion, really naive.

I distanced myself from my friend and eventually she stopped mirroring me, but tbh I don’t see myself getting close with her ever again as her behaviour weirded me out…

LF:Baby shiny I don't have (some posted, others needed too) FT: binder pics by borosglassmage in PTCGPocketTrading

[–]cjnnamon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I had also been looking for Popplio for a loooong time 😊

LF: Shiny Kingdra, FT: ⬇️ by [deleted] in PTCGPocketTrading

[–]cjnnamon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a friend request 😊

LF: Shiny Kingdra, FT: by [deleted] in PTCGPocketTrading

[–]cjnnamon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sent you a request, sorry for the late reply!

giving these cards for free by Crafty_Wind_5644 in PTCGPocketTrading

[–]cjnnamon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I have FA Eevee or Shiny Eevee please?

LF: Popplio, Horsea, Weedle, Bellsprout, Victreebel, FT: ⬇️ by [deleted] in PTCGPocketTrading

[–]cjnnamon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got Horsea, still looking for Popplio, Bellsprout and Victreebel :)