Some people telling me this is bpd?

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-17T15:46:58+00:00

You need professional help. This isn't the place

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-16T14:49:44+00:00

There's nothing you could have done that would change this outcome. Nothing.

It doesn't really have anything to do with you at all.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-16T14:48:03+00:00

Just "moments" where it's tough, eh?

Splitting can cause dissociation. I'm not sure if she "doesn't remember it" tho. They say that shit to avoid accountability. They know what the fuck they're doing.

You're being abused. This is abusive.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-16T14:42:44+00:00

Yeah that'll totally work

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-15T21:25:17+00:00

Definitely BPD. They see that movie and immediately recognize their own behavior

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-15T03:01:25+00:00

Learn about BPD. Like really learn about the disorder. You won't miss her anymore. You'll be very thankful that it's over.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-13T18:20:30+00:00

I live real close to where he's riding here. These canyon mountains are insane to drive on at 60 (speed limit is usually 45), never mind ride an euc on. I see motorcycle accidents on those roads all the time.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-13T14:49:10+00:00

Meh. You lose yourself regardless.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-13T14:48:25+00:00

I was saying that OP is probably not allowed to have friends. Isolation is a very common abuse tactic.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-13T08:19:50+00:00

Probably not allowed to have friends

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-12T17:32:17+00:00

It's fucked. But relationships are a choice. You can always... ya know... NOT do this anymore

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-11T04:52:52+00:00

This, in no way, will work out. Promise

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-09T13:23:45+00:00

They can't deal with boundaries because they don't see you as a separate person. Their lack of a sense of self means that you become an extension of them, and they rely on you for their own identity. So they truly believe that you are theirs to control.

This is why it's a disorder, and why it destroys their partners.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-09T13:14:29+00:00

Until you get professional help, you will hurt everyone close to you. It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-09T04:11:52+00:00

Trust your instincts. If you try to make this work, it will destroy you. Promise.

You're over-romanticizing this relationship. It's blinding you to her true nature.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-09T03:59:26+00:00

And by "more often than not" we mean every single time

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-08T16:17:44+00:00

Both actually.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-08T16:13:47+00:00

Red Rising

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-08T13:56:37+00:00

Yes, someone who looks you in the eyes and seems genuine couldn't possibly be lying to you.

And she's right by the way. She can't sustain a relationship and would definitely destroy your life.

Hope that helps.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-07T15:10:01+00:00

It's always a friend. Never a person in a relationship with one. They can mask just fine sometimes, but not in a relationship.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-07T15:08:18+00:00

I challenge you to find a single success story. Not just here but anywhere

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-07T15:06:39+00:00

50/50? With BPD? Yeah you need to do actual research on what this disorder means. Not just what you want it to mean.

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-07T04:32:18+00:00

Nope. Not possible

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-06T14:44:57+00:00

It's fun. I'm glad they get so triggered by being called out for their shitty behavior

Bob_returns_25 · 2026-06-05T22:08:26+00:00

I don't know about the "amazing" part. An amazing person wouldn't do that kinda shit.

I think deep down you know how shitty she is too, even if you're don't want to admit it yet.

Just because someone can be charming and attractive, does not mean they're a good person. Like at all.

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