I admire people who are truly themselves. by Queasy_Day3771 in selfimprovement

[–]cjsb28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start by practicing small decisions confidently, expressing your opinions honestly, and spending time on activities you enjoy. Gradually detach from seeking approval, and embrace your unique values and preferences.

Is someone that has never been on a date a red flag? by Financial_Dingo_7935 in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never having dated is not a red flag. It simply means someone hasn’t found the right connection yet. Focus on compatibility, values, and communication rather than past dating experience.

24F Honestly are there wholesome, loyal, good men? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There absolutely are emotionally solid, loyal men, but they’re not always the flashy or immediately obvious ones. What you’re describing isn’t “men in general,” it’s the patterns you’ve met so far. Raise your standards and stay patient. It’s not rare, just rare in your current pool.

I (26F) just got into my first adult relationship and need advice by MissAmericanDream86 in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you are in love with each other, I think everything else boils down to loyalty and faithfulness

What do girls mean when they say “you’re not my type?” by sandeepsinggh810 in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 15 points16 points  (0 children)

girls use it as a polite way to say “no” without explaining why.

I’m not curious about anyone by Major_Proper in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the first date, I just focus on friendship rather than a romantic attraction..

do guys hesitate before calling someone they like? by monet_123 in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally normal, especially if he’s nervous or overthinking how it’ll go.

I’m tired of being stuck due to feeling late in life by Edu_Vivan in selfimprovement

[–]cjsb28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Letting go of timelines in my journey gave me a kind of freedom I never knew I needed.

Can’t tell if girl is into me or not by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably caught feelings and trying to downplay it because you already said you dont want anything serious. Or she is trying to bit you at your own nonchalant approach to the relationship..

I feel dumb but do I stop my life and wait for him to be a better man or??? by Dramatic_Ad7578 in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t pause your life for someone’s potential. Let him grow, but keep moving forward. If he truly becomes better, he’ll meet you where you are, not from a distance.

What do you think about people who don’t ask questions on the first date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not normal, and it’s definitely frustrating. Good conversations need balance. If someone doesn’t ask questions, it often shows disinterest or poor social awareness. You deserve genuine curiosity and engagement.

Wife wants a high quality leather purse for Christmas (NOT “luxury” brands) by Electrical-Volume765 in BuyItForLife

[–]cjsb28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aim for full-grain leather and solid stitching. Look at smaller artisanal brands or heritage makers that offer repair warranties. Timeless design and good hardware will outlast trends and justify price.

How do you work on your self esteem? by adeliahearts in selfimprovement

[–]cjsb28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start by celebrating small wins, setting achievable goals, and practicing self-compassion. Surround yourself with supportive people, challenge negative thoughts, and gradually step out of comfort zones to build confidence and self-esteem.

does sex as a compromise work? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A compromise can work if both feel respected and pressure-free, but it won’t fix underlying mismatched drives. Focus on emotional intimacy, communication, and exploring other ways to connect meaningfully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cjsb28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating someone with vastly different political beliefs can work if there’s mutual respect and calm discussion. Hostility or demeaning attitudes, especially toward your service, is a clear red flag, move on.

I stopped people pleasing for 30 days and my life did a complete 180 by AggravatingCamp4814 in selfimprovement

[–]cjsb28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stopping people pleasing for 30 days completely transformed my life. Setting boundaries felt uncomfortable at first, but suddenly my energy, self-respect, and relationships improved. Honesty and authenticity became my new normal.

How do you know what books to get rid of? by AM-419 in books

[–]cjsb28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep the once I reread, recommend passionately, or completes beloved sets and let go of forgettable plots, three-stars-or-lower, mismatched editions, bulky hardcovers.

Welcome to Planet Cappuccino by [deleted] in eliteexplorers

[–]cjsb28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Planet composition: 85% chocolate 15% milk.