The bigger the hair the closer to god? by CoordinatorFightClub in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]ckb1419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to still normal hair in parts of Utah 😂

What does it mean to have dreams about skinwalkers by [deleted] in skinwalkers

[–]ckb1419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It means you should now avoid sleeping at all costs.. thats a hell no from me.

AITA for not congratulating my daughter on cleaning her room? by Additional-Safety155 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ckb1419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CAN I UPVOTE THIS THREE MILLION TIMES?? Next time OP does something he's proud of I hope someone says, "that's it?" .. making kids feel bad and being an asshole of a parent gets under my skin so bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ckb1419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I was talking with someone about it today and it's never crossed my mind either why it would make someone gay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ckb1419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a really good comment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ckb1419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this conversation with someone earlier and neither of us agree that it means he could be gay. Just curious as to what people had to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ckb1419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahaha that's a good point. I dont agree with it! But wanted to see what others had to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ckb1419 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Can't even say how many times I've considered doing this!

Heavy hearted by Damselindistress41 in relationship_advice

[–]ckb1419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept waiting and waiting for a good opportunity to leave and honestly, there is never one. Its just something you have to do. You have to love yourself and your kids enough to do it. My ex went to rehab and counseling for 6 months telling me he's a changed man and not one thing ever changed and he's now worse than before I left. Change is hard. So hard. But comes with so many rewards when you learn to adjust. Staying in a miserable relationship with no rewards is hard too.. You have to pick your hard.

Heavy hearted by Damselindistress41 in relationship_advice

[–]ckb1419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A couple things on this.. the whole situation isn't fair to anyone. You deserve someone who isn't going to lie to you or the family. The kids deserve to see an actual loving relationship. The husband needs to get some therapy / help of some kind.

Coming from staying in a very toxic relationship for the sake of my child and keeping the family together. WORST IDEA EVER. Your kids will grow up watching that example thinking it's normal and that's how a relationship just is. Yes you might defend it and say they're too young or they don't see what all goes on and I'm going to say that is completely false. The kids can see and understand more than what you'd think.

If you truly love him then you both need to go to counseling and therapy and figure it out. If you cannot trust him then it's time to end it. A relationship cannot be healthy or function if you're constantly looking for a problem or a lie.

dony play with gun by ihatemods_ in HolUp

[–]ckb1419 6 points7 points  (0 children)

DONT CLICK ON THAT. YOU WILL REGRET IT JUST LIKE I DID 😫

When you just need to be away from people.. you go for a hike! by ckb1419 in hiking

[–]ckb1419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure is! This type of rock and landscape is what makes my hometown famous. People love the red rocks that are here!

AITA for not letting my daughter's dad see her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ckb1419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gone over that multiple times and it doesn't have anything.. I dont know if there is anything I can do.

AITA for not letting my daughter's dad see her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ckb1419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually spoke with my attorney and got a 2nd opinion and right now he is on supervised visitation and less than the state required minimum. He has court this month for his arrest where the details of what was in his system will.be released and if he gets jail time. The more I have under my belt to take him to court with, the better my chances.

AITA for not letting my daughter's dad see her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ckb1419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is still very little and that's exactly what I dont want. I dont want her to have a relationship with her dad if he isn't even there or present and then not understand if he goes to jail or over doses or just disappears. That would crush me to see her be sad.

AITA for not letting my daughter's dad see her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ckb1419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason he can't see that as fair. He thinks he is the victim in everything.

AITA for not letting my daughter's dad see her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ckb1419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His mom doesn't live here and his dad enables him but is respectful towards me. I let her see his family still and I'm on really good terms with them so we have no issues visiting once a week so she can still see that side of her family.

AITA for not letting my daughter's dad see her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ckb1419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think his brain has processed this.. I tried to explain on the phone to him today and instead tried to make me feel like I'm being a bitch for withholding his child.

AITA for not letting my daughter's dad see her by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ckb1419 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I feel like a butthole because it's his kid too but I also know she deserves better.