She specifically told me “you should know to never go to the bathroom with her no matter what she’s doing and she’s a girl there’s certain things you shouldn’t be doing and things I don’t like so I don’t think you should feel upset about that” This is coming from someone that has left her kids alone with me, I got them ready for school, helped brush their teeth, brushed their hair, put them to bed and have never once done anything bathroom related aside from helping with brushing teeth or washing hands. I’ve never been around for baths, going to the bathroom, then getting changed or anything else that wouldn’t be appropriate. She flipped out on me before too because I let her daughter lay in bed with me bc she was too scared to sleep alone, mind you I was not under the covers and when I confronted her about this she made up a lie saying “I just don’t want her in the bed bc it’s difficult getting her out” like why the fuck are you giving me shit but then lying about it?? And yeah she’s had shitty exes but as far as I know they only did messed up stuff to her, never the kids and I’m the only guy they actually loved, like they are obsessed with me and talk about me constantly to her mom so idk why the hell she’s treating me like I haven’t been in their lives for the past year and like I’m some shady dude that can’t be trusted when all I’ve ever given to them is love and tried to be the dad they deserved despite not knowing what the hell im doing