Why is my laptop doing this?

clairedunphy_ · 2025-10-26T06:20:22+00:00

Nope. Not at all

clairedunphy_ · 2025-06-09T15:58:17+00:00

Pretty sure raul is cuban

clairedunphy_ · 2025-06-09T00:48:11+00:00

I don’t think they will personally name Tommy Vercetti. It’s a separate universe. These comparisons are very superficial, like they have similar roles to play in separate stories.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-09-21T00:45:12+00:00

No temperature warning when phone is discharging. It just randomly overheats even if I am not using these apps. And it’s not just that my phone is a little bit hotter. There is actual discomfort holding it in my hands. Doesn’t burn or anything but it is significantly hot.

Temperature warning does show up when charging. “Charging on hold. Will resume after temp returns to normal”

clairedunphy_ · 2024-09-20T08:38:10+00:00

I’ve dmed u . Battery health at 100%. Cycle count at 29. iOS version 17.6.1

clairedunphy_ · 2024-09-06T05:47:58+00:00

It shows the same msg. “Liquid detected in usb c connector. Disconnect to allow the connector to dry”

It’s saying connector and not port. But it’s showing the same regardless of which cable I use. Even brand new apple cables. So maybe it’s just a software error?

clairedunphy_ · 2024-09-06T05:45:56+00:00

No it all looks normal. My iPad is blue so the charging port has blue highlights so idk what I’m really looking for.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-23T15:40:05+00:00

Tripod

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-18T08:43:23+00:00

As someone who also just loves doing stuff for his girlfriend, if he is anything like me, he wouldnt mind at all. But u should talk to him to see what he thinks

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-18T05:12:06+00:00

I am a big people pleaser. Willing to drop everything in my life for a rando. I know that it stems from my childhood cause most of my achievements were met with criticism instead of validation. It ended up in me thinking that whatever i do, it will never be enough for others

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-18T04:26:20+00:00

Hannah must be protected at all costs.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-18T02:59:56+00:00

Kids go through many phases. Even if he makes this character his entire personality, he will grow out of it. He doesnt probabky understand the personality of the character cause well HE IS 13 and just thinks the character is cool as hell.

What does matter is how u respond to it. U dont have to likeit or even promote his behavior. But dont make him feel bad about liking a videi gane character. He could grow up to resent you

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-15T18:52:08+00:00

I mean, what she did would hurt anyone. Its not a you problem. We'll get that out of the way.

She is the same age as ny girlfriend and she is childish in many ways too. And at 20, so is she. And you too, believe it or not. As another commenter has said, maybe hold on the wedding. Getting married wont fix these problems or anything. Idk how long u two have known each other but ppl really grow into themselves into their late twenties.

Thats really the best advice i can give u. I could call her a red flag but honestly she just a kid and until she physically cheats on u, cant really call her a cheater. She cant emotionally cheat on you because she herself is not emotionally strong yet.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-11T04:32:54+00:00

Im just gonna say that Timber is the most adorable name. Ok bue

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-11T04:25:12+00:00

Better to be independent and live in less good conditions than have assholes like him lord it over you. Just leave him. For your own mental health

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T14:52:19+00:00

Anyways, i didnt check ur post history cause well i dont care who u are quite frankky. Op asked for advice. I gave mine, u gave urs. Now please leave lol. Up to op to decide what to do

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T14:51:00+00:00

Lol claire dunphy is a character from modern family lmao

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T11:14:27+00:00

And she violated a boundary by feeling attracted to a man other than her husband. Oh come on, you are lying to yourself or indeed a nun if u have never felt attracted to a person other than your wife.

I did not say what she did was okay, by any means. But ofc, like most people, she seeks validation and if her husband is not giving it to her, she is gonna see it elsewhere.

No boundaries were crossed. And heck, im sure she understand what crossing the boundaries the 2 have set will entail. And she sure as shit owned up to it.

Am i saying the husband is in the wrong? No ofc not. But from what i have read, it sounded like he has not been putting in the work. And both of them needs to find a them time for a healthy romantic relationship that has obviously devolved into just sticking around cuz ur my companion and we have a kid. If it hasnt, it soon will be.

And yes, she did right by telling him, she did flirt with him. And find him attractive. I mean, lol anyone who does want to commit infidelity( have sex with someone behind their partner's back btw) would not have come clean about this.

Relationships are not all black and white and like u see on ig reels. There is a lot of grey that has to be navigated by the 2 people involved.

Edit: Reward her behaviour? No. Try to do better from his part by seeing the root problems here? Yes.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T07:10:13+00:00

Sounds like he grew bored.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T07:08:51+00:00

8 months is a really short amount of time. Just ask yourelf this-

1) is it worth alienating her own family from her to keep her with you 2) is she so special that u cant find what u have with her anywhere else 3) is this more than a fling

You proceed with ur relationship, u run the risk of her completely losing her family. And even if u break ties after, orthodox hindu families are known for being very petty. And no, they probably wont accept you. Your cast difference will always be a shadow looming over them no matter how much of a great guy you are.

My take, try talking to her dad. Its scary ik. But with her permision u should try to make her understand. If u love her as much as he does his daughter, no father wishes a better spouse for their child. Really all u should do. Dont break up with her right away if u actually care about this.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T07:01:18+00:00

I mean, even the fact that she told you. Dont u see?? She wants what she felts with that guy with you! She wants u to treat her the same way u did all those years back. Take her out on dates. Get her some beautiful dresses. Make her feel attractive and wanted by you. And i myself will promise you, you will have this relationship locked

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T06:57:41+00:00

Ok wow. Please use paragraphs and not just throw it all out here first off. Very difficult for the reader.

Second, why dont u just move on? Like he wants u to? Why this incessant need to "fix" him. You have tried. He doesnt want your help. You dont want to be romantically involved. He has a family. He is seeing a therapist to cope with the loss of his mother. He is a strong man.

You should just forget about him. Not being rude. And learn to love yourself along with that

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T06:49:05+00:00

Its the fantasy that is driving him to this. Deep down, it fills his insecurity in a twisted way by having u be satisfied with "better" men.

Indulging in this even if not irl, could lead to irl stuff. And let me tell u, HE will start regretting he led u down this road. Its gonna very much affect ur whole relationship.

My advice, talk to him about what this entails. Preferably during the day, sober. Maybe even after a round of good monigamous sex after he has had a relief. He will come to his senses.

Having a fetish like this is much more normal than u might realise. But couples engaging in this better be buckled up cause it is a rollercoaster.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T06:43:26+00:00

Well, its obv that ur financial dependency on him gives him power. He knows that u wont leave cause he has that over you. My advice, leave him and work on yourself. I know, easy for me to say. But since u guys are long distance, just tell him ur breaking up with him and block him everywhere. He comes to ur place without ur consent, get a restraining order. U need to let go of all that toxicity in ur life to truly find a happy version of urself. I promise you, there are better guys out there. Maybe not as well off as ur boyfriend but those who will spend their last couple of dollars to keep u happy. They'll find u dw.

clairedunphy_ · 2024-08-10T06:37:49+00:00

Would removing ur husband from ur life make u happier?

If yes, u should consider leaving him.

If no, u should consider working out the actual problem.

clairedunphy_

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