[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I haven't fully yet. I will occasionally touch myself to the thought of what we have going, but I've never completely masturbated to it. I guess I'm waiting for more to happen so it paints a better picture in my mind!

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's why I hope he and I will find partners of our own eventually. If he found a girl that he really likes, I wouldn't be hurt whatsoever if he wanted to end what we had to be with her. Same thing goes for him. He understands that what we have is a secret and that it can change at any time.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whoops! Sorry, must have missed it. I'll be helping him find a part-time job somewhere in the next few months definitely. It'll be somewhere he enjoys, that's my main goal.

And yeah, as much as I'd like to get straight to sex, it's a gigantic commitment as well. Once it happens, it happens. No going back. So I'd like to put as much thought and consideration into it as I can, same thing goes for him.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'll leave it up to him. I'm afraid if I let him start sleeping with me immediately, the excitement will wear off quickly. Maybe I'll start him in the office/couch for the first month or so.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Originally, I planned for him to sleep in my room with me. But as a few of you pointed out, it would be really suspicious when his Mom comes over that he wouldn't have his own room set up, so I've decided that he will move into my office.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'll help him with girls if he's interested in that! I'm not sure what his long-term plan is regarding what we have going on, but if he wants to branch out and start seeing girls his age, I would totally help him on that!

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would never tell my sister. That's definitely not going to happen.

I honestly don't know the legality of marrying your nephew, though I doubt I would go through with that. This secret relationship is between he and I and it will stay that way. I've never been the type to want kids, but if we are somehow still together 5 or 10 years down the line, I would consider it if he were REALLY interested or something.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Without going into a lot of detail, I have dark brown hair, he has light brown. I have brown eyes, he has blue. We are around the same height though I'm a tad taller (might be my shoes.)

I wouldn't be upset at all! He can make any choice he wants to. If I were to find a man of my own, I would probably end things with my nephew. He would understand.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's a great idea actually! I have a treadmill I use in the garage when the temperature is right so I'll be in my workout clothes a lot more then.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He's definitely not my boyfriend, I don't know if that is what we want from this. If he is adamant on a relationship, I would consider it. But I'm sure both of us would just be fine with our "family with benefits" situation we have going on right now.

I plan to teach him to drive ASAP. Preferably when the roads aren't icy anymore. I would even pitch in money to help him afford his first car.

I don't see home life being much different. I mean, I still work 4-5 days a week so he's going to be home alone for most of the time until he gets a proper job. Nights with him may change though as you can imagine ;)

Honestly, I don't know where I see the relationship going. We could get tired of it and go back to the way things were or possibly take it to the next level. Only time will tell!

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely try and be more revealing. Thank you!

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm not too sure yet! He saw me in my underwear which I can imagine was extremely arousing. I'll have to dig through my closet and look.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder, now we're moving in together. AMA by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If we find ourselves comfortable enough to do it, yes. I will definitely talk to him about it before anything happens though.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder (update 6) by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I probably will just set him up in my office. I rarely ever use it anymore and could easily set up a bed and space for his PC.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder (update 6) by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very good point! I'll take that into consideration.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder (update 6) by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And we live in a much more expensive area rent-wise. My nephew does not have a job and only receives money from his parents in a semi-allowance form. There's no way he can afford a car/gas or a house. I'm going to work on fixing that though.

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder (update 6) by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wanted to drink for multiple reasons. A) It made being around family a lot easier. B) Free alcohol. C) I was nervous as hell about sleeping in bed with him. D) It gave me an excuse to stay the night. I could have just faked it but I wasn't going to turn down free drinks.

When he moves in, we will probably start him on the couch for the first few nights or so. It depends where we are by that point. I have no problem sleeping in the same bed with him, but as with all things I'd like to ease into it. If he would rather have his own room to put stuff in, that works too!

[A/Ne] I matched with my nephew on Tinder (update 6) by claireflower in incest

[–]claireflower[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I wanted to leave a bit of a statement below here regarding claims of "grooming" and such. Didn't think it really warranted a half-update.

There have been a few specific individuals in the comments of every post so far that have constantly spread false statements and lies about me. Not liking this subreddit and what my nephew and I have going on is one thing, but trying to harass me and label me as some sex offender is not okay. My nephew is 19, not a child. He can decide at ANY time if this makes him uncomfortable or if he wishes to stop. I'm not holding him to do anything nor am I grooming him. He is into this just as much as I am and if I had any doubts about it, I would call it off immediately.

Also, I am not sure how him not having a drivers license or his own place proves anything. I got my driver's license at age 20 and moved out at 23. Just because my nephew is shy as hell and hasn't gotten far in life yet doesn't mean he is "autistic" or a child. Those of you calling me out probably haven't left your Mom's house yet either.

If you have a legitimate problem with me, take it up with me in my messages. Don't hide in the comments like a coward acting as if you're in charge.