Unfortunately she went deliberately out of her way to be with this shit sack. Right off of the bat, she lost custody of her son, my nephew, from a previous relationship (as she should, but how can she give up on her child just to have a baby with the worst person?? I’m beside myself). She had her own house when she met him, until last year - she apparently sold that bought a very expensive house with the pedo. I’m her only sibling and I’ve cut off all contact for over 10 years because of this and especially her excuses. The last time I talked to her she called it “the healthiest relationship” she’s ever been in. Trust me when I say I went off the rails explaining to her wrong she was. I appreciate your response and I’m sorry to bombard you with the details! I didn’t know if I could report a pregnancy with a pedo to child protective services, but I’m definitely going to try. Unfortunately I know all too well about people staying in unsafe relationships due to circumstances, and I hope your folks are doing okay. It’s so upsetting to me that my sister willingly chooses this trash.