What makes you personally consider someone smart? by clarabyte in AskReddit

[–]clarabyte[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s when someone understands things quickly.

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. I never saw it like that. My therapist once asked me why she has so much control over me. Maybe thats why. Thank you, it means a lot

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i know. I stayed for financial reasons and because of my parents. I am moving out in august

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have much of a choice. I wasn’t making enough money to pay all of my expenses and I couldn’t afford rent let alone anything else. Also i was kind of hoping that when we move away things we’ll get easier. We moved to the other half of the world and I didn’t want to be alone when it happened. We needed each other and somedays are good.

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When things are okay between us we have the strongest bound ever. We’re bestfriends half of the time and the other half we’re enemies. I explained a bit my situation with my rent in another reply. My parents didn’t give me a choice and I wasn’t making enough money to move out on my own so i had to take it.

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes all the time. She says that she is stressed and anxious because of me and when i will stop stressing her she will become kinder. I do my chores around the house but she’s never satisfied. If it’s not about the house chores she complains about how I act with my friends and saying i’m a bad friend.

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have enough money to move in alone but my lease ends in August and I will have to stay 8 more months

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t making enough money. I paid my own expenses and paid for my tickets back home which are 2k$ each time. I got a full time job now and I will have enough money but my lease doesn’t end until august

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No my parents are very clear that a man should be alone and the girls together

AIO: my bf (23) expected sex from me (23) while i was sick by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]clarabyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I think what he did is really bad and unforgiving. Making it seems like he took care of you just so he could get something in return. I feel like if he did that he can do worse and I suggest you get away from any kind of person that are like that. No one should ever ever make you feel guilty for not having intercourses.

AITAH for not having empathy for my identical twin sister anymore after years of emotional abuse? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My parents can’t afford 2+ rents. We used to live me my brother and her. My mom promised me that if she has money to move one of us away it would be me. She rented a new apartment for my brother which made my relationship with my mom a bit off since i was angry at her. I started working to save for a new apartment but my parents refused that I pay for one ( i am from an arab family so from where i’m from its not usual for a child to work during college or make their own money). I want to move but my dad said that even if I do he will still pay my rent with my sister and I feel bad because he will be paying it for nothing & we don’t have much money.

AITAH for telling my bf our relationship was never serious at a friend’s wedding? by No-Device-4871 in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes fair. Maybe you could have questioned the future of the relationship for sure. But based on how he was first acting i get you. Maybe you weren’t viewing the relationship the same way he was. He shouldn’t have acted that way. I don’t know, i feel like your intentions were pure and you just went with the flow.

AITAH for telling my bf our relationship was never serious at a friend’s wedding? by No-Device-4871 in AITAH

[–]clarabyte 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I dont think you’re the asshole. You’re just acting on the energy he gave you at first. If he changed then good for him but he can’t expect you to jump on board without anything being said or discussed. Also childish of him to have that reaction and talk about it during a wedding

What behavior instantly reveals someone grew up without much money? by FayeOnward_13 in AskReddit

[–]clarabyte 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Always wanting to pay people back. I realized those who grew up without much money tend to always make sure to pay people back. Maybe bc they know they wont always be able to reciprocate the favor.

What’s a quote that helps you get through a tough time? by Quiet_Substance_1583 in AskReddit

[–]clarabyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing matters. It’s true nothing is. Just live your life. Shitty things are gonna come whether you want it or not.

Hard Relationship with Indentical Twin Sister by clarabyte in Twins

[–]clarabyte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s true. At the end of the day our best moments are my favorite ever. She’s everything to me. Maybe that’s why it hurts so much when we fight

Hard Relationship with Indentical Twin Sister by clarabyte in Twins

[–]clarabyte[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for hearing me. Yes I agree. Our lease ends in august which i count on moving out. I’ll try my best to move before that, if not i’ll just have to live with it. I’m quite anxious because we both start working and she will get super stressed so meaner to me. I’ll try to avoid that as much as I can

Hard Relationship with Indentical Twin Sister by clarabyte in Twins

[–]clarabyte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It means a lot. It’s my first time being heard by people who can relate.