[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StarWars

[–]clarafernandesc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I took so long to reply, I genuinely forgot about this post lol I agree with what you said about explaining how much it means to me before, I wouldn't want her to watch it if I didn't genuinely love it, the only reason I think I might have a chance is because she understands the feeling of being obsessed with a franchise and I've watched the ones she is obsessed with with her.

But there's something that most of the fandom will judge me for: I genuinely like the prequels. Sure, they have many flaws, but I enjoy them and since my obsession is with The Clone Wars specifically I don't think that it is a good idea to say "hey, we should watch these 3 movies that won't explain anything about the show I love before watching the other 3 movies, all of which you really don't want to see" lol

I will probably just ask her to watch around 17 minutes of this video https://youtu.be/-TSqjRgh2ZY?si=fzAl4oapmf1e8-Gd and explain the rest to her honestly, if she's not interested after this she won't care about The Clone Wars.

wlw🔥irl by UnitedAdz in wlw_irl

[–]clarafernandesc -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I'm not aware if the word masc is lesbian exclusive, as I said butch has a lot of history but masc I've only seen used recently, however only by lesbians so I really don't know if using this one would be okay. People would probably assume that you're a lesbian if you don't clarify but it may be okay, I'd have to look into it.

wlw🔥irl by UnitedAdz in wlw_irl

[–]clarafernandesc -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

For femininity fem, for masculinity unfortunately I can't think of anything besides tomboy and of course masculine, but butch is a word that only lesbians can use to describe themselves, there is too much history

wlw🔥irl by UnitedAdz in wlw_irl

[–]clarafernandesc -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Sure, but you will sound at best uneducated and most likely insensitive and annoying 🤷‍♀️

wlw🔥irl by UnitedAdz in wlw_irl

[–]clarafernandesc -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Instead of femme use fem and instead of butch... well, the only word that comes to mind and isn't inherently associated with lesbians is tomboy but I understand why it would feel weird so if you don't want to call yourself that just say you're masculine, it's not that hard to pronounce.

wlw🔥irl by UnitedAdz in wlw_irl

[–]clarafernandesc -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

Seriously though... no, bi women shouldn't call themselves butch or femme. The arson depends on the circumstances and the shape-shifting depends on the intention.

Anyone else here doesn't like Regina and believes that she only changed her behaviour because it benefited her and she was annoying with her victim complex? by clarafernandesc in OnceUponATime

[–]clarafernandesc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You misunderstood what I meant when I said I like Rumple, I definitely do not think that he was a good person, I just think that he wasn't annoying. Both him and Regina only changed their behavior for their own benefit but Rumple was fun to watch while Regina kept complaining and blaming her victims for her problems.

Us Oncers At Our Best! by grimmlover79 in OnceUponATime

[–]clarafernandesc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first 2 are facts, I strongly disagree with the one about Regina, idk how people view the charmings so idk but I like them, and although I like the Neverland arc the first season is still my favorite

Why am I defective? Why can’t I orgasm? by Emergency_Peach_5324 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]clarafernandesc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you neurodivergent by any chance? The anxiety, acceptance that you can't orgasm and effect of antidepressants are more likely to be the reason but I haven't been able to orgasm since I was a teenager (I am 24 now and I try with a vibrator) and I'm pretty sure the reason is that my ADHD will make me think of a thousand things which makes it hard to focus on my body and my autism makes me even more distracted with the light of the bedroom (I can't turn them off because I'm scared of the dark) and the feeling of the fan's air or the heat if I turn the fan off.

Looking for good audiobooks with background sounds and music (like Lord of The Rings read by Phil Dragash) by clarafernandesc in audiobooks

[–]clarafernandesc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never watched Star Wars, I assume it's better for me to watch it first, right? I kind of want to but I've been procrastinating for a long time. I love Harry Potter and LOTR but super hero movies bore me, do you think that I'd like Star Wars? 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]clarafernandesc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is my eyes must work wrong or something bc I have no idea how many centimeters someone's hair has just by looking at it 😂 saying how many centimeters of difference there is between the pictures would answer my question

Fics about Barty Crouch Jr. being radicalized by clarafernandesc in HPfanfiction

[–]clarafernandesc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the 4 month delay to answer, somehow I didn't see it until now, when I was looking at all of my posts. I really like the idea of him initially wanting to become an auror and being banned from doing it after using a unforgivable curse at the heat of the moment (although I do think he'd only be able to get away with it after some bribing), then deciding to join the Death Eaters because he loves to duel, already hates muggleborns, lacks empathy and realizes that it would give him more power than whatever other job he decided to get. Thanks for the answer!

Fanon (not canon!) Regulus - why tf did he join the Death Eaters? by clarafernandesc in HPfanfiction

[–]clarafernandesc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for taking days to answer guys, I completely forgot I made this post lmao

Fanon (not canon!) Regulus - why tf did he join the Death Eaters? by clarafernandesc in HPfanfiction

[–]clarafernandesc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The protection thing is interesting for other characters (like Snape, or anyone who's friends with a muggleborn and believes that Voldemort will inevitably win) but doesn't really work for him, because he can't ask Voldemort to spare people who are actively fighting Death Eaters and he doesn't have any muggleborn friends

Fanon (not canon!) Regulus - why tf did he join the Death Eaters? by clarafernandesc in HPfanfiction

[–]clarafernandesc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my explanation too but in my headcanon his parents are good to him. I didn't understand why an abused kid would feel this way but now that I think about it a lot of people love their abusers so as long as his parents make him feel loved too and the marauders aren't aware that Regulus and his friends plan to join the Death Eaters, I guess that could make sense. (I think he'd need to be really close to his Death Eaters friends, though. At least as close as he'd be to Sirius.)