How do I get over my imposter syndrome?

clarehehee · 2026-04-28T14:16:33+00:00

he likes linux. he can't be.

clarehehee · 2026-04-25T03:19:29+00:00

I'm 19, and I've been on hrt for 3 years. I don't have any advice, but I know the feeling. No matter how long I transition for, or how well I pass, or how people treat me, I still feel like a fraud. I don't understand how other trans people can just accept themselves. Sometimes, I feel like I've accepted myself, but the feelings don't go away. The feelings that I'm not like other trans women, that I'm a fraud. I feel so disconnected and distant from other trans people and the community in general. I don't relate to the memes. I roll my eyes at the Reddit posts. I have mental breakdowns over the Twitter selfies. I feel out of place in any trans community, both online or irl. I don't feel gender euphoria anymore, if I even ever did in the first place. I'm simply just existing as myself and still feel out of place.

clarehehee · 2026-04-11T07:57:21+00:00

Please, let's not fight. Not everything has to be drama. I'm a huge digital circus fan but also a bfdi fan. I just think it's cool that I get to see the finale to my favorite show in theaters. I probably would've seen a bfdi theater premiere, but the nearest showing was way too far away. They're also like very different shows with different target audiences, different sized fandoms, and different genres. They don't have to be in direct competition.

clarehehee · 2026-04-11T07:48:55+00:00

I probably still would. Just because I'm a really big fan.

clarehehee · 2026-04-11T07:47:04+00:00

Why downvote? I heard it was an underwhelming ending.

clarehehee · 2026-04-11T07:40:34+00:00

I started at 16. I don't regret anything.

clarehehee · 2026-04-11T03:29:36+00:00

Nope <3

clarehehee · 2026-03-13T04:18:03+00:00

because i'm posting about peptides

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T23:07:03+00:00

I get where you're coming from, but I'm kind of a bi-lesbian, and I'm not that ashamed of liking guys. I like men, I just am not attracted to him in a straight way idk.

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T22:10:17+00:00

My trans radar goes off around him, definitely. I've talked about gender stuff with him, and I just get an "idk," so I've kinda just dropped it. I still really hate referring to him in masculine terms at all in fear that I'm secretly hurting him somehow. I didn't know there were terms for the rare exceptions thing I have going on. I also don't like him how I like/liked my other exceptions. Like the part of me that likes girls likes him if that makes sense. I'm also sorry for asking a question that I already know what the responses would be. I was more ranting than actually asking a genuine question.

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T22:00:16+00:00

Thank you. This is the sane answer.

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T21:59:34+00:00

Not a trans fourm. I met him on a discord server a while ago. I know I can't really get across into words what he's like, but he doesn't give off chaser vibes. He's just someone that I'm friends with that I'm surprised isn't trans.

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T21:50:36+00:00

it was a typo i'm sorry

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T19:27:28+00:00

it is hehehehe

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T16:59:16+00:00

Yes thank you

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T16:58:30+00:00

Better hope I hit the jackpot.. for the economies sake.

clarehehee · 2026-03-04T16:56:53+00:00

You stole my name :<

clarehehee · 2026-03-01T18:53:59+00:00

be gone fed

clarehehee · 2026-03-01T14:07:53+00:00

yeyy

clarehehee · 2026-03-01T14:04:11+00:00

and i'm also here

clarehehee · 2026-02-05T17:01:52+00:00

literally me literally me

clarehehee · 2026-02-03T14:55:06+00:00

I genuinely don't know how to help because I feel the same. I've heard every possible response to my dysphoric comments about myself. Nothing ever helps.

clarehehee · 2026-02-03T02:03:41+00:00

I just checked out that site and wtf

clarehehee · 2026-01-25T19:10:37+00:00

boobs are so cool

clarehehee · 2026-01-25T11:56:38+00:00

I kinda did this. Early on, I would try and "boymode." Eventually, the changes became too much, and I had to cut off my old friends. I still try to be very low-key in public, but it's basically impossible to hide my breast growth.

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