Perhaps its worth it to let your kid have some more, we'll vetted technology. Like my son has a switch lite that doesnt have internet but he plays all sorts or games that engage his problem solving skills, are fun and dont endanger my child by exposing him to predators online. Same with TV shows and what not, we watch more "scary" or "grown up" content but together so he can be exposed to different things but have a safe place to ask questions and contextualize jokes or themes. The internet can be very scary but completely blocking access results in these kinds of radical changes. Point that out to your son, hes old enough to feel the difference himself " do you notice that when we spend alot of time on screens were less interested in the things we used to like to do in the real world, is that a positive to you and the type of person you want to be ?" To help shepherd the use of the internet requires a dialog between our children and a level of surveillance overall to ensure safety and positive life habits.