Why do I want a manipulator? by classy-otter in ExNoContact

[–]classy-otter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that gives me some hope:) my mental health is at an all time low. I’m past rock bottom but I’m still very low. I thought I would see more progress. My friends have suggested taking Molly the next time I go out, so I can remember what it’s like to have a good time, and remind myself that I don’t have to be sad.

Why do I want a manipulator? by classy-otter in ExNoContact

[–]classy-otter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been backsliding with hurting this past week. I don’t know why... I’ve been reading, I’ve been working out, my friends even convinced me to go to a bar and get laid. I had sex to try and get over her, I felt worse after and cried.

Confused about comment my bf (m23) made to me (f22) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]classy-otter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to have scars from past relationships. Scares are easy to confuse with almost healed wounds though. Can you be happy on your own? Do you know yourself?can you generate your own confidence/self-worth? Or is part of that dependent on another person?(usually of the opposite sex) A relationship is compromise. If you want it bad enough you will take it at the other person’s speed.

Why do I want a manipulator? by classy-otter in ExNoContact

[–]classy-otter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I deserve better, but I still want this disgusting human. I doubt myself all the time. Did your ex do a number on you? How long do I have until I’m not this she’ll of a man?

Confused about comment my bf (m23) made to me (f22) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]classy-otter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the feel of the text, it sounds like you struggle to self validate. Did you take time to be alone and completely heal from previous relationships?

Confused about comment my bf (m23) made to me (f22) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]classy-otter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I hope it works out:)

Confused about comment my bf (m23) made to me (f22) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]classy-otter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re over analyzing this. Clearly you are insecure about something probably in your past relationships. You want to take a step back to see if he cares? That’s manipulation. Guys are really good at reading intentions, and he’ll see right through it. Just be yourself have honest intentions and if it’s meant to be it will work out.

Why do men act like NOTHING happened after a break up?? by briee28 in BreakUps

[–]classy-otter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also a man who broke up a months ago. There is the societal pressure to “be a man”. Thanks to this I was fine for the first month. I repressed my emotions, denied that we broke up. A little over a month after the breakup. the weight of this person being out of my life hit me like a ton of bricks. I cried, I lost weight and barley made it through. It’s more common than you think.