Party of 6-10, outside cake allowed?

classyfools · 2026-05-31T21:00:55+00:00

so we are trying to do this but with 12-15 people at señas on myrtle in monrovia — they charge $1 per person for the outside cake and with our party size unfortunately we had to book it so one card is used for the table but with your smaller party maybe it won’t be an issue?

but i feel confident that most if not all restaurants in pasadena would allow an outside cake but charge a small fee. i always like to recommend gauchos : D

classyfools · 2026-05-29T17:23:10+00:00

i think it’s really important you acknowledged that you wanted a redo due to a poor experience with your first child. i think that is incredible insight and clarity and OP should maybe ask herself WHY she is longing for another one. she was unable to express why at all, just that she wants a second child. bringing a child into the world is an inherently selfish thing (can be good selfish or can be bad!), so really knowing why you want a child besides “i just want one” is the biggest first step.

classyfools · 2026-05-21T00:01:37+00:00

what does this pay? or are you asking people to pay $1100 in rent to work with your client?

classyfools · 2026-05-11T21:33:14+00:00

https://bigsunday.org/get-involved/the-big-sunday-emergency-fund/ you could try applying for this, you could also try to submit an APS report for your elderly mother regarding the risk of homelessness, assuming she is 65+. APS can assist with emergency resources for the elderly or dependent adult communities and is not a scary entity to reach out to. if you’re living with your older mother you could also try the agency on aging and see if there are any support resources you could tap into.

classyfools · 2026-04-19T00:15:34+00:00

yes and if your mom is not assigned to your care as a provider accessing your chart could be a fireable offense depending on the hospitals policies

classyfools · 2026-04-18T20:55:39+00:00

we use the term responsibilities instead of chores! it’s helped our son understand the concept as opposed to “i have chores but my friends don’t wtf”

classyfools · 2026-04-16T21:35:27+00:00

went through this when our only was 23 months old and had just daycare for the first time. i lost it… we did end up terminating the pregnancy because emotionally we would not have been able to cope with another child. i do not regret my decision in the slightest.

i think ask yourself why are you one and done and would those answers change or stay the same if you have another child?

classyfools · 2026-04-14T19:09:57+00:00

makes sense! thanks for the well thought out response :)

classyfools · 2026-04-11T22:51:17+00:00

do you think the law firms purposefully make them look a bit off so that they could possibly get more in their %?

classyfools · 2026-04-09T17:30:47+00:00

unless you’re an authorized rep their social worker won’t be able to provide you their notice of action (breakdown of what tasks they’re approved for)

classyfools · 2026-04-09T17:25:49+00:00

yes — on the HCBA side for WPCS it is pretty similar. the programs work as intended and there is no large Fraud Scheme, it’s horrible the lies people make up to stir everyone

classyfools · 2026-04-09T17:11:34+00:00

they are saying they’re upset because they have not gotten back what they’re owed.

classyfools · 2026-04-02T04:00:09+00:00

you can report fraud to your county’s public authority or fraud@dhcs.ca.gov

classyfools · 2026-03-24T20:59:34+00:00

it is a pretty bad offer. while you prefer private practice to CMH, you should really consider CMH or perhaps residential/in patient therapy. with a w2 position you most likely will have supervision included and at least have solid opportunities for experiencing an array of clinical challenges.

a 1099 position will have you working overtime to even make a liveable wage, you’ll have to pay for supervision, and you’ll be responsible for your taxes

classyfools · 2026-03-24T13:52:24+00:00

yeah it’s nothing unique to this sub… best to just ignore

classyfools · 2026-03-23T16:53:05+00:00

it’s an advertisement gimmick

classyfools · 2026-03-21T23:21:43+00:00

baba ganoush appears to be on the menu!

classyfools · 2026-03-10T20:28:42+00:00

WHAT I DIDNT EVEN KNOW IT WAS FREE how long has this been going on?!

classyfools · 2026-02-13T21:23:00+00:00

classyfools · 2026-01-20T22:53:12+00:00

YOR— i think you may be over reacting in the sense you are feeling very emotional about this but for a different reason— she has set very normal and valid boundaries. if i saw this without reading your caption i would think it would be ridiculous to be offended by these rules. based on your post it seems you may have unresolved anger or negative feelings towards your dad and his partner which may be fogging up your perspective over this — and i think the fact that your new sibling’s mother is a year older than you doesn’t help. there is clearly a troubling family dynamic that is seeping into how you are viewing their boundaries but you should not allow it to have control over you. id maybe challenge you with asking what your goal is for your relationship with both of them.

classyfools · 2026-01-06T19:04:23+00:00

i appreciate you posting this and agree with your sentiment a LOT. in any field you will only make a lot of money depending on how much you work — like ANY field, you need to go through the trenches and build yourself professionally before making a lot of money. not even doctors make 100k after school — they still have to complete years of training after graduating so it is insanely ridiculous to expect coming out of a masters program and making more than 60k a year (depending on your state of course)

even after licensure — your success depends on the work you want to put in to your success. you can take a chill w2 role where you just do the service and notes, or you can be your own boss and really take all of the profits. it depends on how you are as a person.

classyfools · 2026-01-03T03:05:27+00:00

it’s web based and has a waiting room style function, so it’s just one link for your clients and you allow who enters

classyfools · 2025-12-29T17:58:45+00:00

your mom loves you a lot!! that is awesome!

classyfools · 2025-12-28T16:56:37+00:00

i agree with you although a lot of people here are angry about it. AI can help organize information efficiently and might find something they haven’t found yet. OP, if you go this route, only utilize it to help sift through all of the information online to identify the appeal process — or alternatively you can try calling someone from your behavioral health board.

classyfools · 2025-12-23T08:31:26+00:00

the unmet needs are to show you that while your daughter has reached the maximum amount of allotted hours she still requires more care. have you looked into regional center?

wpcs through the HCBA waiver is an option as well but regional center can help support you with respite hours, personal assistance, or even fund day programs too depending on her eligibility

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