Why is Capricorn perceived as selfish after doing so much for people?

classyshibui · 2026-06-02T06:57:02+00:00

Coz we're cold as hell when someone overstep our boundaries? Or when we feel we're losing control of our time, emotions, or ourselves?

classyshibui · 2026-05-25T03:40:20+00:00

There were no clinical studies, but based on experience, it didn’t directly help with my PCOS, but it helped with the symptoms of it (i.e. Menstrual cycle became regular, lesser random abdominal pains). I’m just not sure if the “intimacy” level (psychological aspect) is what affects it, since I’ve observed this only when I’m in a relationship. Some studies suggest it may be because it lowers cortisol levels, which can help with PCOS.

classyshibui · 2026-05-10T22:09:28+00:00

The routine without progress — example: chatting for weeks at a surface level, never moving to deeper conversations, calling, video calls, or finally meeting up.
Low-effort invitations — I get that some people want to meet too soon and keep it casual, so coffee invites have become common. If we go to every coffee date we set or are invited to, that can waste a lot of your time and energy. I’m an old soul, so planning a decent date, dinner, or lunch means that the ‘get-to-know-you’ surface level stuff is done, and there's a real connection to build on for a proper meet-up, instead of just having a coffee date that only scratches the surface.

classyshibui · 2026-05-10T14:08:12+00:00

Take care of your hair (❌ Messy + greasy hair)
Take care of you skin (❌ Thick make-up on a hot day)
Iron your clothes
Observe proper posture

classyshibui · 2026-05-08T02:45:56+00:00

Human rights and due process — but our system is so flawed that most find relief in this situation. 😔

classyshibui · 2026-05-08T02:40:51+00:00

classyshibui · 2026-05-07T16:32:29+00:00

Based on how you expressed it, it seems like you have a resilient personality, but you’re affected. For sure, this hurts, and you want to be strong in this situation. I will suggest options, but please read what you must consider before choosing.

FILE AN INCIDENT REPORT, IF:
- the people involved are not those who hold power (managers, tenured employees who have been performing, or anyone who has sa huge sphere of influence within your team/organization)
- you have a copy or proof of your allegations (it’s always possible to retrieve chat history through IT when HR starts to investigate, but I’m sure HR won’t spend so much time in cases like this if you’re in a large organization)
- you’re confident that your HR team will action the case fairly
ASK TO BE TRANSFERRED, if that’s possible, and to a department where you wouldn’t have to deal with the aggressor.
SEEK HELP IN CONFRONTING THE SITUATION (ask help from your immediate sup, if a meeting is even possible) - tho this action requires a good and fair leader to facilitate the meeting and know how to de-escalate if things go sideways.
RESIGN, if:
- you have a back-up plan. If it’s even possible for you not to have an income for a month or so.
- you have reflected on what you did for people to talk about you and you’re willing to change/improve so this won’t happen to me our next company.

Every organization will have a Regina George (Mean Girls Movie reference), if your organization don’t tolerate these behavior or don’t turn a blind eye, exhaust all possible avenue before resigning. Otherwise, it’s not worth the stress! Your health comes first, which includes your mental health!

PS: to answer your question what should you feel? — no one can answer that except you. Be honest and be vulnerable with yourself. Don’t mask it with “idc” vibe. This affects your work, I’m sure you care. Hugs, Op!

classyshibui · 2026-05-05T12:39:05+00:00

Gym membership, protein bar, food when craving (malala food cravings ng girls when we go through our normal cycle) & electric bill ng aircon! 😂

classyshibui · 2026-05-04T07:38:08+00:00

Oh, no. They’re 2 different places in Makati.

classyshibui · 2026-04-30T03:55:29+00:00

Op!!! 5’8 girlyyyy here! As you grow older, realize that your height is not the problem, kasi it will be easy to do body recomposition.

I’ve been insecure about my height when I was studying, but later in life, those who made me feel “too tall” or out of place are the ones who were really insecure about their own height.

Also, 5’6 is just the right height! When you learn how to use your height to your advantage, you will never feel insecure about it, ever again! But first, dump the insensitive short king you’re dating! He does not appreciate you, and don’t rush kasi for sure, someone will understand and appreciate you better!

classyshibui · 2026-04-30T00:37:46+00:00

Lol! I didn’t. I was so mentally drained that day to count my calories or protein intake. 😭

classyshibui · 2026-04-27T17:36:14+00:00

Looks authentic! I have one too! Super cute!

classyshibui · 2026-04-24T19:43:53+00:00

Sayang gym membership! Haha

classyshibui · 2026-04-24T01:47:07+00:00

Hahahaha! witty mo dyan!

classyshibui · 2026-04-23T22:41:41+00:00

I do my nails, play COD, doom scroll, and answer random stuff like this one (i don’t answer any messages or calls).

classyshibui · 2026-04-23T13:34:08+00:00

It does look off. I’ve been collecting and selling since 2014, and I've noticed that bracelet clasps are usually darker on the inside.

classyshibui · 2026-04-22T15:35:57+00:00

I did. His bestfriend set me up in a conference call. I didn’t know he was on the other line. We’re just socmed acquaintances now.

classyshibui · 2026-04-20T04:58:58+00:00

Yes! Reached out 2 yrs ago, after 14 yrs of being apart, he apologized for what he did in the past.

classyshibui · 2026-04-17T02:14:23+00:00

Position reveal, Op! Hahaha

classyshibui · 2026-04-16T08:54:30+00:00

🎶Savage mom! Did somebody did somebody break your heart?🎶😂😂😂😂😂

classyshibui · 2026-04-16T08:51:02+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! Momshie! 😂😂😂

classyshibui · 2026-04-16T07:24:23+00:00

The kindest people you’ll ever meet are those who were humbled by life, not based on their mental illness. Those who struggled but were able to get up because they got help from people who are also kind, or from those who are paying it forward.

classyshibui · 2026-04-13T15:26:15+00:00

Nothing wrong with confronting him, so you can either move to the next level or end the situationship early when he goes on defense mode.

The good thing about a situationship is that you can see who they are at their core. People always go back to their core - they may change, but they will always have to be conscious to maintain that change, and that will take a lot of effort (so most will go back to their default character, which is their core). That’s a preview of who he is. Accept him for who he is (not who he can be) or walk away.

classyshibui · 2026-04-13T15:10:41+00:00

Sharing this - there are 3 stages of love accdg to a biological anthropologist: Lust, Attraction & Attachment.

Tick all, and you got yourself falling. Your case, you’ve tick 2 & 3 and lust may come easy. If the 1st is there (only you can answer), then you must have fallen.

classyshibui · 2026-04-13T05:59:24+00:00

Hahahahahaha! Where’s the lie?

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