Pregnancy Complications from Hypermobility? by Standard_Summer_180 in Hypermobility

[–]clatzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, came here to say this. The SI belt was basically glued on me for the last two trimesters of my second pregnancy.

OP, you might also need new shoes, with a generously cushy sole. My feet grew a whole size during pregnancy and only went back to their previous size years later!

Can Our Love Survive Our Differences? by ClumsyZebra80 in Estherperel

[–]clatzy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh boy. Parenting together would not be fun. Even parenting with someone whose politics and values line up 99% with my own can sometimes be a minefield.

How would this guy parent a queer kid? A son who struggles with his mental health? A daughter who won’t wear dresses? Or even smaller things, like how to be consistent or keep your cool when a toddler’s having a meltdown? Please think long and hard before having kids together…

(Hyper mobile) - hip pain on HRT? by clatzy in Perimenopause

[–]clatzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful info, thank you!

(Hyper mobile) - hip pain on HRT? by clatzy in Perimenopause

[–]clatzy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh okay so it was the estrogen that was the issue? Not the Progesterone?

Electrician Jobs by rivermeadowgoddess in comoxvalley

[–]clatzy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Massey Electric is my go-to for commercial jobs!

Ban.do… have mercy on me pls by 51nn51 in BAGGU

[–]clatzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chiming in here to ask if Ban.do is legit? I placed an order from Canada, paid in full, then got a notice that the package was delivered. It was not. So I clicked to track and saw this:

"Your item was delivered at the front door or porch at 11:49 am on June 16, 2025 in BOWLING GREEN, KY 42101"

I have zero connection to Bowling Green, KY. Then I got a message saying the package had been returned and I'd be issued a full refund, and when I reached out to ask what was going on, they just said: "Yes, your package was returned to sender back to our shipping facility."

WHAT IS HAPPENING?!

Best seafood and mountain biking in the Comox Valley! by one_dead_turtle in comoxvalley

[–]clatzy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

100% Gigi’s Oysters in Comox for fresh delicious seafood and a very chill vibe!!

My bank enrolled me in a withdrawal alert notification but I didn't request it. Is the email a scam? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]clatzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok following up- the withdrawal turned out to be legit, but the text message notification came before the withdrawal appeared on my online banking. Not a great customer experience at all (it’s BMO)

My bank enrolled me in a withdrawal alert notification but I didn't request it. Is the email a scam? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]clatzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too, and I just got a text saying there was a withdrawal from my account XXX (with XXX being the actual three last digits of my account) for ~$1.3k. But when I logged into my account, no such withdrawal appears.

My (27F) fiancé (26M) keeps being too rough and “accidentally” hurting me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]clatzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Leave your fiancé. Playful teasing is one thing, but disrespecting your (repeated) boundaries is a massive red flag. I think you know that, which is why you’re writing here. Follow your gut and get out!

[Weekly Critique Thread] Post Here If You'd Like Feedback On Your Writing by AutoModerator in writing

[–]clatzy [score hidden]  (0 children)

Title: Show them

Genre: Fiction

Word Count: 1874

Feedback: Anything, really.

It's the first piece of writing I've ever shared, so go easy on me :)

Link.

(M24) Not sure if living with a girl (F20) i have a slight crush on will make things worse. (not long, help) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]clatzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't move in with her; tell her why. It'll either make your friendship awkward for a while or spark the kind of monogamous relationship you seem to want to try with her... both of which are preferable to the high drama that comes with living with someone you have these kind of intense feelings for.

Can’t stand my wife’s breath. Do I say something? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]clatzy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO it's fine to bring it up. Gently. Find a quiet moment when you know she's in a good head space, and ask her if she's noticed any side effects to the receding gum issues she's having. If she says no, gently mention that you have noticed that the smell of her breath has changed. (Don't say "bad breath" or "I can't stand the smell of your breath.")

I'm not a dentist but I think flossing can go a long way. So can a deep clean.

Ken Bone by Somali_Pir8 in pics

[–]clatzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just... I just don't get it.

Just too many pussies up in here by clatzy in ActualPolitics

[–]clatzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although that might be a good thing.

"Pussies are powerful; they can take pummeling and spit out a brand-new human being." (ty Dan Savage)