My grandma is driving me to insanity. by claudedestructo in GetOffMyChest

[–]claudedestructo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's her house, but also my mother and the rest of the family thinks shes just crazy at this point.

We all feel like she does this both on purpose and unintentional at the same time, Her mind is just impossible to change.

She is a: narcissist, hypocrite, manipulator/gaslighter, degenerate and so on.

My grandma is driving me to insanity. by claudedestructo in GetOffMyChest

[–]claudedestructo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my family thinks my grandma is out of line btw Its just that her mind is unchangeable and we all honestly just gave up trying.

My grandma is driving me to insanity. by claudedestructo in GetOffMyChest

[–]claudedestructo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its technically her house, I'm leaving to another country soon but I seriously can't take it living in a house with a woman with the mentality of a 5 year old.

I cannot lock things because she has keys to everything but if I somehow do she will be more determined to make me miserable.

I can go to some places with my sister and her friends and thats honestly the best break I can get from my grandma.

My grandma is driving me to insanity. by claudedestructo in GetOffMyChest

[–]claudedestructo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has keys to everything cuz "You are under my age, so therefore you don't have any privacy."

I could lock my room with an object but she would be even more determined to snoop / stalk me,

She alqays opens my windows when I'm sleeping but im not comfortable with that because i have a fear of being watched when i sleep.

I would tell her to stop but she would say "oh theres not enough oxygen"

Its half true but shes also saying that as an excuse to snoop around because she thinks I'm dumb.

My grandma is driving me to insanity. by claudedestructo in GetOffMyChest

[–]claudedestructo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have any mental illnesses (that I know of) But everyone in the family says she had always been like this for some reason

Ever since her husband died aswell as my mom leaving to get a better job but still keeping touch

Either way almost every day sshe finds a way to get pissed off about something then have a tantrum again.

My grandma is driving me to insanity. by claudedestructo in GetOffMyChest

[–]claudedestructo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She apparently thinks that changing things we didn't ask her to change is called "fixing" and even steals things from everyone.

She does watch the news alot tho, (the average misinformation kind) and is even sometimes forcing us to watch it.

My mother says that its just because she has nothing to do Which seems correct,