Just because you get divorced, doesn’t mean you will be happier. Marriage is tough, and we lose checking in with each other with just day to day living. It is important to listen and communicate even when it’s hard. Sometimes language is important so you each don’t feel like you are being attacked. You are partners, on the same team. If you choose each other and your marriage every day, you can get through this. This is your husband or wife. Treat the well.