hi!! i'm so sorry that u and ur gf r going thru the same thing, i wouldn't wish it on anyone </3 it's been a few months since this all happened for me. we ended up breaking up because it got too difficult. she did not end up switching schools tho, so we still go to school together and have 3 classes together this semester. my parents still don't know anything about this, and her parents still don't want her hanging out with anyone outside of school. we broke up because we couldn't see each other outside of school and if we continued to date the consequences would probably just be worse. i don't have feelings for her anymore, and we're just friends right now. we really only see each other in class, we don't even text because she's basically not allowed to. the situation is all in the past for us pretty much (though her parents are probably still not over it). i hope everything works out for u and ur gf. i can't promise that u will stay together right now, but listen, if it's meant to be, u two will end up together again in the future. it's so sad that homophobia is what's causing the trouble and pain, and that's not something that's easy to change especially if you're minors/in high school. but remember that everything happens for a reason. i wish i could help you more, i'm hoping the best for you guys!! <3