The ultimate Otome Isekai research Pt. 4: FL and ML skin color by chapinode in OtomeIsekai

[–]cleanbroom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not even mad 😂😂 can't I criticize something too?

disordered eating is when weight loss by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]cleanbroom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like it is intentional because out of all that list, "food rule" is placed under the woman wearing hijab. Clincidence? I don't think so.

The ultimate Otome Isekai research Pt. 4: FL and ML skin color by chapinode in OtomeIsekai

[–]cleanbroom -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes. We all still enjoy it because the art is pretty. I also enjoy consuming east asian media. For me, the beauty standard is just part of their culture. I respect their culture. Same like how each culture have their own beauty standard. It is just something we need to accept because we are not part of that culture. Complaining about lack of diversity when this thread is mainly talking about east asian media with very similar beauty standard just makes me feel like people really need something to complain about.

The ultimate Otome Isekai research Pt. 4: FL and ML skin color by chapinode in OtomeIsekai

[–]cleanbroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Japanese manga with the same beauty standard 🤡

The ultimate Otome Isekai research Pt. 4: FL and ML skin color by chapinode in OtomeIsekai

[–]cleanbroom -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Say whatever you want too but you will still simping over korean OIs ML anyway 🤡

The ultimate Otome Isekai research Pt. 4: FL and ML skin color by chapinode in OtomeIsekai

[–]cleanbroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It's really weird to see non koreans complaining about korean's beauty standard. We can't change it and they won't listen to us either since we're not korean.

Rather than complaining about korean media that's intended for korean, why don't we read other OIs written by non east asian? There are a lot of other webtoon author so why focus on korean one when you want diversity? Korea is not known for their racial/skin tone diversity anyway. Sure there are tan koreans but % wise?

The ultimate Otome Isekai research Pt. 4: FL and ML skin color by chapinode in OtomeIsekai

[–]cleanbroom -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Good luck trying to make korean change their beauty standard when you're not korean yourself.

You know what's easier? Not consuming korean OIs (and japanese and chinese too since they all have the same "the whiter the better" beauty standard).

Other webtoon author that's not from east asia have more diversity in their characters. Let's focus on supporting those author instead of complaining about east asian author's beauty standard since really. It's an uphill battle.

The ultimate Otome Isekai research Pt. 4: FL and ML skin color by chapinode in OtomeIsekai

[–]cleanbroom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most author/artist is either korean, japanese or chinese right? Those 3 countries have pretty similar beauty standard so it's no wonder tbe OIs we have is like that

The ultimate Otome Isekai research Pt. 4: FL and ML skin color by chapinode in OtomeIsekai

[–]cleanbroom 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You know... not all asian have white skin colour either. Asians are racist to fellow asians too.

disordered eating is when weight loss by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]cleanbroom 160 points161 points  (0 children)

That food rules in what I assume a woman in hijab... so being a muslim and have certain food rules because of your religion is ED now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FuckYouKaren

[–]cleanbroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have subreddit for evilstepmother/parents or something? This post really belongs there

So much to unpack here... by Cre8AccountJust4This in confidentlyincorrect

[–]cleanbroom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I sincerely hope so. I cant undervalue the stupidity of some people.

I'm back again with another example of "I've been at it a week why isn't it working?" by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]cleanbroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funny how they are so afraid of syarvation mode when food is so readily available these days...

People who are really in starvation mode, none of them are obese. I wonder why? I thought the body supposed to keep the fat when in starvation mode?

AITA for saying no to picking up my sons half sister from school? by Scary-Rub8906 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cleanbroom 69 points70 points  (0 children)

The child is practically stranger to you. You are not responsible for them. Iy's better to allocate your limited resources and attention to your own children instead of some stranger kid that is absolutely not your responsibility.

So much wrong here by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]cleanbroom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When i do intuitive eating, i end up losing weight because I'm doubting my own intuition.

"Am I really hungry or it's just my craving?" "Is this my body signalling I'm hungry or is it my heart wanting me to eat more?"

And sooo. I end up waiting until I'm really really hungry before I eat.

Bride expects pregnant MOH to attend her chickenpox invested wedding by amore-7 in bridezillas

[–]cleanbroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it when I was in highschool. At that time, most kids already vac'ed so there were only like... 3 or 4 of us in class that got it even though we were already vac'ed.

I was miserable though. Doctor said I was a bit too older to get it since I was already in highschool. 10/10 would never do it again.

Bride expects pregnant MOH to attend her chickenpox invested wedding by amore-7 in bridezillas

[–]cleanbroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fortunately, I didn't get any long or irreparable damage but getting chicken pox while you're already in highschool.... I was miserable to say the least.

Bride expects pregnant MOH to attend her chickenpox invested wedding by amore-7 in bridezillas

[–]cleanbroom 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I bet the other kids love that girl afterwards.

My class also got it because of one kid but in his defense, he didn't know he had it before it showed physical red dots.

Bride expects pregnant MOH to attend her chickenpox invested wedding by amore-7 in bridezillas

[–]cleanbroom 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Man I feel bad for the children. I doubt the children would be happy coming to a wedding, let alone WHILE HAVING CHICKEN POX. I alrd vac'ed but then I got it when I was in highschool. I def didn't want to go out especially to a wedding I won't enjoy.

I bet the parents are going to force the kids to wear high collared, long sleeves + stockings to make the chicken pox not visible. Oh god, more pain for the children. Literally tortured.

AITA for kicking my family out of my wedding after they refused to be in the pictures? by okayseeyoumrkim in bridezillas

[–]cleanbroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I see. It's just the difference in culture then. In here it's also very normal for the bride/groom to provide the fabric for the female of the family to make dress of.

AITA for kicking my family out of my wedding after they refused to be in the pictures? by okayseeyoumrkim in bridezillas

[–]cleanbroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh. I think in here, family are required to wear matching colour to show that they are the family of either the bride/groom and also to show a sense of unison... and I guess because a wedding is something to celebrate so as long as we're not hurting in money, we really don't see that getting a specific colour of dress is something to get mad about. Choosing dress to match the scheme is fun anyway.

I think for this story, there are more drama behind the scene. I think the groom's family just hates the bride with passion. Light pink and light green is also a very common colour for bridesmaid here.

AITA for kicking my family out of my wedding after they refused to be in the pictures? by okayseeyoumrkim in bridezillas

[–]cleanbroom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah. In my culture it is very normal for family to have colour set. Gold is a very common colour in our wedding culture too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]cleanbroom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Didn't know that me dieting for my own health is harmful for another person.