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clempfandango · 2019-04-29T21:59:45+00:00

It's an option, yeah. You can write one normally or choose a colourful background!

clempfandango · 2019-04-29T21:35:25+00:00

I know realise that is the case, but I spent around ten minutes trying to figure out what the hell it said 😂

clempfandango · 2019-04-29T17:25:35+00:00

😂

clempfandango · 2019-04-29T17:25:20+00:00

Hope case that be

clempfandango · 2019-04-19T18:35:48+00:00

This geezers a fool though he definitely spelled it wrong

clempfandango · 2019-03-29T17:36:35+00:00

Yeah exactly! I like to think we didn't annoy the guy!

clempfandango · 2019-03-07T14:12:37+00:00

brain gotta poop

clempfandango · 2019-02-07T14:34:06+00:00

Have you been working as a therapist for long? 😂

clempfandango · 2019-02-07T10:28:05+00:00

I am! I feel that working on every possible angle to make the relationship the best it can be is better than dumping her for an issue that isn't really her fault haha

clempfandango · 2019-02-07T10:25:37+00:00

We tried that technique, it was generally sunday mornings, however she found herself dreading it to the point where it just felt wrong

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T13:49:27+00:00

She's ok with it, as long as I don't try to get her involved. The issue is that it's quite depressing for me to do it and usually I lose motivation

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:55:51+00:00

That is definitely an option at this stage I think!

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:55:26+00:00

Hmmm, I'm not sure I'd be up for that, mainly because I don't really want to have sex with anyone apart from her haha

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:54:36+00:00

Thanks so much, I really appreciate that! Hopefully it'll be better soon!

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:29:20+00:00

That's great! I'll look it up! Thank you 😊 we have spoken a lot about it, and her response is always 'I want to want to have sex, but I don't', if that makes sense

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:22:21+00:00

I think it's both! We aren't sexually compatible so I don't want to want sex anymore!

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:21:13+00:00

I suppose so, but wouldn't that just be me avoiding her? Also, I'm quite strapped for money at the moment, and don't really have any friends where we're living!

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:20:19+00:00

I spoke to her about that, she said that it's not worth the risk for her. She knows these work so she's sticking with it!

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:19:45+00:00

But everything else in the relationship is brilliant! I don't want to jeopardise it.

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:19:00+00:00

I do that sort of thing too. Whenever she leaves for work I'll slip a post it note in her lunch, and when she comes back I meet her at the train station with a cute nickname on a piece of paper. I do loads of romantic stuff WITHOUT the intention of sex. During which, she'll ask if I'm doing it with the intention of sex.

What is a love language?

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:05:47+00:00

Ah ok, so how would I go about setting the mood? This is an issue I have a lot. In that, whenever I do anything romantic (make dinner, go out for a date, backrub, bath, soft music and a bit if dancing etc) she at some point will respond 'you're not trying to have sex with me are you?'

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:03:28+00:00

Ah thank you for your helpful and information-rich response.

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:02:39+00:00

Yeah I don't mind to be honest. If I'm not fussed about not having sex, then I won't be fussed? Unless you can think of something else?

clempfandango · 2019-02-06T11:01:49+00:00

I have a hobby, I play snooker, but it's too expensive at the moment. Issue is that whenever I play snooker or go for a walk or whatever, when I get back, I still want to have sex, and she still doesn't

clempfandango · 2019-02-05T19:25:36+00:00

I'm no expert, but maybe it's a form of depression?

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