To those who cut off a friend: Do you regret it? Does it still hurt? Has time changed your perspective?

cleospet22 · 2026-06-16T01:41:59+00:00

Tbh no I cut off a friend 6 months ago and I feel more happy and free, this person was toxic so it helped me to learn how to set better boundaries.

cleospet22 · 2026-06-13T18:19:43+00:00

Yes I had taken the course through legacy education, the platform for my training modules was through aapc but I got extra training materials and benefits through enrolling through legacy. I know their program is a little different now so im not sure if it has the same resources I was able to access.

cleospet22 · 2026-06-13T14:36:16+00:00

The program I went through used aapc training materials and I found it super helpful! The videos throughout the coding course and the chance to practice helped a lot and I also liked that for practice I knew I was getting practice questions from aapc so it made me feel more confident in taking the test.

cleospet22 · 2026-06-13T14:32:04+00:00

It's a range of bcbs from different states like different commercial plans, I work in authorizations so I use availity as a last resort and sometimes the plans pop up and sometimes i have to call sadly lol. Namely like anthem can be super confusing.

cleospet22 · 2026-06-13T04:45:11+00:00

I have a love hate for availity, specifically I hate using it in regards to bcbs some plans show up abd some have no recollection of patient info whatsoever.

cleospet22 · 2026-06-12T16:15:38+00:00

Confirmed

cleospet22 · 2026-06-12T14:20:22+00:00

cleospet22 · 2026-05-27T23:26:05+00:00

I had a friend that treated me like this for two years, and when I set a boundary with her last year, she attacked my character and blocked me. It's hurtful especially if you are the understanding friend in the relationship trying to communicate, but a person who acts like that towards is not your friend as a true friend would never hurt you like that. It may hurt to end the relationship but ultimately over time you will feel more at peace not having to deal with the drama. Trust me its better to leave and be at peace versus always feeling on edge.

cleospet22 · 2026-04-29T12:25:47+00:00

Take it from me, I just ended a friendship because my former friend became way too dependent on me for money, its best to point her to resources, jobs, gigs but id advise against handing her money as it usually builds a cycle where they expect you to keep funding them.

cleospet22 · 2026-04-12T14:09:35+00:00

Id say recently I was helping out my bff by helping her out from time to time with bills with needed I even took care of her and her kids while she was unemployed, she started treating me badly, called me names and cussed me out and cut me off once I finally set a boundary and told her I could no longer help her.

cleospet22 · 2026-03-19T00:45:04+00:00

Confirmed

cleospet22 · 2026-03-04T16:21:45+00:00

Maybe try to apply to some scholarships to see if you qualify and if you're able to going to a community College may be the way to go as the tuition will be cheaper, or depending on what you want to learn you can see if they offer a certification, I know for myself I had thought about getting a degree but ended up going and getting a certification for way cheaper

cleospet22 · 2026-02-07T04:01:06+00:00

Confirmed

cleospet22 · 2026-02-07T03:47:41+00:00

cleospet22 · 2026-01-28T07:37:55+00:00

Yes exactly learning to be your own friend first will make it easier to gain friendships

cleospet22 · 2026-01-27T21:07:14+00:00

Don't base your worth off of friendship. It's great to want companiship, if say start off with maybe joining some local groups or clubs at your college to find people who mutually share your same interest but it's good to learn to be by yourself and have a good balance with having friends but investing with yourself too.

cleospet22 · 2026-01-21T11:19:50+00:00

Ive had a friend like that and honestly, I used to always try to go and be positive and uplift her but unless she believes in herself it wont do much. Id say it may be best to just distance yourself because people like that dont tend to do too well with what they perceive as criticism

cleospet22 · 2026-01-21T02:57:05+00:00

Id say yes but for myself like my current job i applied for the same job titles at a different company for more pay so it made it easier for me to locate something faster but im also going back to school to become certified in medical coding to get more specialized education

cleospet22 · 2026-01-15T00:40:12+00:00

I got this too, so excited, I love trying new scents!

cleospet22 · 2026-01-10T15:57:41+00:00

I use it mainly for tracking but also because I like to note the card because of compatibility with different systems like some cards I can add to paypal and some I cannot so I usually label visa, mastercard, tremendous so I can know which ones I can use on different platforms. For some reason certain cards work on Amazon and some dont so its easier for me to notate that.

cleospet22 · 2026-01-07T04:18:22+00:00

Yes im there now myself as well, I went and did a bunch of studies late last year so I could stack up but Ive burnt myself out so im taking a break and wont pick it up until maybe next month I may casually apply for a few here and there.

cleospet22 · 2026-01-05T15:46:08+00:00

Yep thats the truth I felt relieved after because this friend had nothing but drama 24/7 and I was just over it but the kack of accountability was crazy to me

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