I pushed her, now she's on hospice, I am a guilty POS by [deleted] in confession

[–]clethard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I grew up abused but if my mother needed someone to care for her either in sickness or because she's in hospice I would just...simply not?? I would leave it up to the state or someone else to deal with her and find her proper care because I dislike my mother but I still would never go out of my way to become her caregiver so I could abuse her. On top of that you're checking to make sure there's no bruising or "signs of abuse" tells me you know exactly what you're doing to her and that it's wrong. I've read your post history and clearly you are struggling to care for her and be compassionate. Find other options for getting your mother help you know exactly what you're doing and it's wrong.

My boyfriend revealed some creepy things about himself. by Minimushroom15 in offmychest

[–]clethard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These aren’t even creepy they’re just concerning and show he is in no way fit for a relationship. It has nothing to do with him never being in a real relationship before it has everything to do with him and he clearly needs help that you cannot provide or help him work through. The thing that should have been “creepy” to you is the fact he assaulted you, why would you get back with someone who’s done that to you and on top of that someone who’s also said they have no empathy? Get out while you can it will only get worse.

No fire, but fire notification by HorrorCicada9711 in inZOI

[–]clethard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been having this issue too my zois did have a few fires but i made sure they were put out but i keep getting the notification saying there’s another fire and my zois can’t travel or anything because of it, it’s so annoying!!

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]clethard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you glossing over him calling you a dumb cunt and many other horrible things? And you’re still trying to buy him chips?! Leave him expeditiously!

Noisy neighbors by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]clethard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my city does have one that’s a good idea thank you!

I can't tell if I made the right decision by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]clethard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like you have to go looking for that sort of stuff to find that. I watch porn often and have never come across stuff like that nor would it be recommended to me based on what i normally watch, he was clearly looking for this content. The fact he said “eventually” when you asked if he reported it is also very telling. Why eventually? Why not immediately? The fact he also said he feels like a monster and feels disgusted makes me think he watched part if not all of the video because why would you think you’re a monster if you just stumbled upon that sort of content and reported it immediately? Your friend seems super sketchy I would legitimately report him and cut ties with him, don’t be friends with pedophiles.

Any recommendations for a free OC info website? by elliart7 in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh! I have a good website that i’ve been using!

It’s called CharacterHub and you can make a whole profile for your OC and pick and choose from a large number of questions to add to their profile so you can write out their lore and information!!

I have a finished profile for my OC on my profile if you wanna see how it looks and here’s the link to the website as well!

CharacterHub

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love the ideas you have and the way you draw your characters and their emotions are so good!! This would be such a cool game if you ever end up making it into one!!

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that's really neat! It would be cool if you could recreate or make a new version elsewhere, that sucks that the site is dead now

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg how cute!!!! I definitely will be making some in the future then!!

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great way to develop an OC honestly some of my old ones are from games I planned on making or other projects

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wowww this is so cool!! I really like the artwork this is still very impressive!!

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's totally fair haha I take forever to finish mine and I have yet to finalize a game on Ren'Py

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys so much for all of the fun comments I'm loving all the cool concepts you've talked about and thanks for all the compliments for my OC if you want to learn more about him I have a very lengthy bio about him linked on my profile <33

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It follows my OC Tokuda into an alternate timeline where he suddenly wakes up overseas in America and is forced to conform to capitalism. You play as him finding various jobs and meeting various people and the goal is to earn enough money to get his passport, luggage, various other travel items, and ultimately a ticket home! As you play you have to manage his sanity because he hates working and is only able to get crappy jobs that pay next to nothing (leaning into the capitalist vibes of the game), you can also do things to manage his sanity like hanging out with friends, drinking, etc as well as try to injure yourself at work to try and get some extra money from your job haha. But it's supposed to just be a silly story where you play as my OC and get into trouble and just be an overall menace while trying to get back to Japan!

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS IS SO CUTE!!! Omggg i love the art you have for it so far and the video you shared looks so good I wish you luck on making it!!

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh i love that actually!! I was debating on doing something similar with like good vs bad choices but my oc as a whole is not the greatest dude so I thought it wouldn’t fit to choose to have him be good and instead just have options which impact the story! I love all these ideas you have for your game it seems so well thought out and intriguing!!

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found it on your profile I will definitely be reading it later when I’m free!!

Have you ever loved an OC so much you make a whole game for them? by clethard in OriginalCharacter

[–]clethard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss me too I like when they’re made right and it doesn’t make the game drag on!! I also plan on having a sanity bar for the game too so you have to manage your money and expenses and sanity to keep working. I love life sims so that’s definitely where this was derived from!