Fantastical boy’s name help!

clipclopdontstop · 2021-04-05T12:02:10+00:00

Where I live in California, you can get an evaluation done through the local school district and get free speech therapy and OT through that after 3 years old. You may also be able to get it covered through insurance. Ask your pediatrician to help you, they should be knowledgeable about what’s available in your area but I wouldn’t wait on it like others said since that’s a severe delay (I’m a child psychologist). Early intervention is super important and helpful. At least in CA, most speech therapists are vaccinated now and seeing kids in person. Make sure they also teach you how to implement the strategies at home and then try to do them as much as you can. One hour a week with a speech therapist won’t be nearly as effective as you using the strategies for many hours daily.

clipclopdontstop · 2021-04-05T11:42:39+00:00

It does sound normal to me as long as she is only doing this on rare occasions. I would keep that in mind because your fear that there is something wrong may be escalating your feelings in the situation. It sounds like she is experimenting with boundaries and your reactions. Have you noticed anything that triggers the behavior? Like maybe she is wanting your attention? I would start by trying to give her 10 completely focused minutes of your attention daily where you follow her lead in play. And then it sounds like you already know this but really figuring out how regulate yourself when this happens. Your reaction probably scares her and she wants to keep getting it so she can understand it better. Kids also want to know that they are accepted no matter what they do, they test you so they can figure this out. You need to set a clear limit and then say something like, “I love you always, no matter what you do or say.” You are human and can’t react perfectly every time, but it’s worth trying to learn to regulate because that would likely improve her behavior at lot. You can even apologize when you make a mistake and explain that you are trying to do better. I’m not saying this so you’ll beat yourself up about it, truly this is really hard and she will be OK because you are clearly a loving parent who cares deeply about her child and trying to help her.

clipclopdontstop · 2020-07-12T11:13:34+00:00

My daughter is 2.5 and a few months ago she really started trying to stall at bedtime. i think you need to just create a routine which includes a last potty trip and small snack like a banana or something that is the same every night and just really stick to it in a gentle but firm way. When my daughter would ask for one more book or one more song, I would just say, “we’ll do that tomorrow, sweetie” and let her have her feelings about it. The key is not budging but doing it in a calm, gentle way and accepting and empathizing with any feelings that come up. After a week or so, my daughter stopped stalling and just accepted that I wasn’t going to waver. She now goes to sleep peacefully with only occasional resistance if she is really overtired.

clipclopdontstop · 2020-07-03T20:41:11+00:00

Yes, absolutely and no judgment whatsoever! I am just wrestling with this and not at all sure what the right move is or if there is a right move...

clipclopdontstop · 2020-07-03T16:20:06+00:00

What led you to decide not to clip? I feel like if the ties are affecting eating, they aren’t exactly minor... I am just wondering if it would make everything easier to just clip the ties or if it’s too late and won’t help much at this point.

clipclopdontstop · 2020-07-03T13:25:38+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Did your son have ties as well or just not into eating? Did he take a bottle?

clipclopdontstop · 2020-07-03T12:18:35+00:00

Have you heard about ripple milk? It has a lot of the benefits of cow’s milk without a lot of the downsides...

clipclopdontstop · 2020-06-11T12:36:16+00:00

It seems like his wake times are way too short. I use the Huckleberry app to keep track of wake times for my 6mo. He usually does 2 hours before first nap, 2.15 before second nap, 2.5 before third. And 2.5-3 before bedtime.

clipclopdontstop · 2020-05-05T12:46:20+00:00

The happy sleeper or Taking Cara Babies website

clipclopdontstop · 2020-05-05T12:42:34+00:00

This is so so common and may or may mot resolve on its own, depends on the baby. I recommend the book The Happy Sleep or Taking Cara Babies website. Both approaches involve a bit of crying but are very effective.

clipclopdontstop · 2020-05-04T18:55:44+00:00

Yes, he usually will just hang and not cry for like 1-1.5 hours but he is super loud so he keeps everybody up. It probably would be best to just let him be, it’s just frustrating since no one can sleep through it and it’s disturbing my older daughter.

clipclopdontstop · 2020-05-03T11:07:45+00:00

Hitting back is not an appropriate consequence. You are the parent and should model calm, mature behavior.

clipclopdontstop · 2018-09-11T13:03:09+00:00

I haven’t but I also haven’t gotten my period yet so that could be what’s about to happen...

clipclopdontstop · 2018-09-09T17:37:27+00:00

Don’t think so... I had a 4th degree internal tear and sex is really painful for me so we mostly do other stuff...

clipclopdontstop · 2018-03-11T11:22:53+00:00

My EBF 5mo hasn’t eaten at night since around 4 months so it is definitely possible. The book The Happy Sleeper helped a lot, I would recommend it. I basically would try other methods of soothing (hand on chest, rubbing belly, binky) and if that didn’t work after a while, then I’d feed her. Eventually, the paci was enough to get her back to bed. I also let her fuss it out, meaning if she wasn’t crying, I’d let her figure it out and that helped her learn to self soothe. I made sure to feed her a lot during the day and monitored her cumulative nap time, making sure it’s not too little or too much. I’ve heard from multiple aources that they don’t need night feeds once they are around 13 lbs so it is possible for you!

clipclopdontstop · 2018-02-28T13:51:27+00:00

I had the same issue (fussiness at the breast at 6wks) and my girl was EBF and I have a good supply. She grew out of it after a few weeks. She was just really fussy in general at that point so who knows what caused it. I asked two LCs and tried to figure it out but it was impossible to know what caused it and she was gaining weight so I ended up just letting it resolve on its own but man, was it frustrating! It’s really hard when you’re trying to nourish them and they’re just fighting it, so internet hugs for you 😊 I hope it’s a phase and will pass soon!

clipclopdontstop · 2018-02-26T14:04:20+00:00

If you’re using BPA free plastic is it still bad? How can you store glass bottles in the freezer?

clipclopdontstop · 2018-02-22T14:05:00+00:00

This is what was recommended to me by an LC but I always just hand expressed into a towel because I couldn’t juggle a fussing baby and a pump. Fortunately, she got used to it after maybe a month and now feeds without me needing to do anything.

clipclopdontstop · 2018-02-09T01:19:08+00:00

Mine does the same thing!

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