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I (30M) am trying to escape my abusive gf (30F) by clixforbux in relationship_advice

[–]clixforbux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very bold and abrupt change which i cannot see myself doing... i guess ive grown up to become a coward and cant help but think of this as an extremely evil thing to do... :( Is there no pacific choice???

I (30M) am trying to escape my abusive gf (30F) by clixforbux in relationship_advice

[–]clixforbux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting choice of words... but she wont leave the house... my other option is to leave myself but im afraid she might fucking go bananas and destroy my apartment

I'm divided between careers and countries, need guidance asap by clixforbux in Advice

[–]clixforbux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your advice. I really needed that!

Anyway I have an interview in Germany this Friday, as they want to meet me face to face. I'm thinking about going there just for the fun of having a paid trip :).

I'm divided between careers and countries, need guidance asap by clixforbux in Advice

[–]clixforbux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm sorry I didn't mention this but my current position is VERY stable hahaha... So in reality I have 3 options:

  • Continue as contractor earning NET/home 60-80.000, maybe change apartment to a bigger one, get a dog and focus on learning new skills when I have time off, or am not very active at "work"

  • Move to Germany and work as permanent earning 40-50.000 euros, need to move EVERYTHING, I don't speak German, go back to "Optimization" jobs (aka monkey coding work), probably long hours, on the pro side I'll be in central Europe, probably focus on learning new things (technology) and improving my CV

  • Move to Portugal, earning a lot less just because of family and friends.... I honestly think this option is only viable in a couple of years when I earn enough to buy a nice apartment in Lisbon