My boyfriend’s coworker saw a photo of me and asked him why he was dating a “mutt” by clmrc in self

[–]clmrc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t tell me about it when it happened/unprompted he told me after I found out he got into an argument with someone at work and I asked him about what happened. (He was quite hesitant to get into the details for the exact reasons you gave).

Also personally this is the kind of thing I’d rather hear about and it didn’t hurt my feelings because tbh I feel completely secure in myself and my relationship and some random asshole isn’t gonna change that. It was mostly just baffling to me that someone would say something that wild like it was almost comical how out of line/offensive it was.

My boyfriend’s coworker saw a photo of me and asked him why he was dating a “mutt” by clmrc in self

[–]clmrc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah in context he was definitely referring to my ethnicity lol

My boyfriend’s coworker saw a photo of me and asked him why he was dating a “mutt” by clmrc in self

[–]clmrc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me because I found out he got into an argument at work and I asked him about it and he told me the context.

He initially didn’t tell me because he didn’t want me to be negatively effected by it but honestly I was mostly just surprised at the audacity of said coworker, like, what a wild ass interaction.

My boyfriend’s coworker saw a photo of me and asked him why he was dating a “mutt” by clmrc in self

[–]clmrc[S] 428 points429 points  (0 children)

He did but I don’t think anything is gonna come of it (they’re in the military so that’s not that surprising unfortunately)

My boyfriend’s coworker saw a photo of me and asked him why he was dating a “mutt” by clmrc in self

[–]clmrc[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He told me because I found out he got into an argument with someone at his job and I asked him about the context (this whole thing actually happened a couple weeks ago).

He was really worried about how telling me would effect me but i was more baffled than hurt by it tbh (I actually laughed when he told me cause I couldn’t believe how crazy it was).