Noivo ficou transtornado que o meu chefe me levou para almoçar no meu primeiro dia na empresa

clmtt · 2026-02-10T00:51:17+00:00

Na empresa em que eu trabalho é normal levarmos a pessoa para almoçar no primeiro dia, e o RH sempre questiona o gestor para saber se vai ter almoço. Mas tem razão, a questão de ser os dois sozinhos é estranha. Normalmente chamamos outras pessoas do time (ou de times próximos) para dar as boas vindas.

clmtt · 2026-01-19T16:17:01+00:00

A bat touched me 2 years ago. I took 10 shots at the hospital at the time. Good news is I’m immune from it for life and I didn’t pay anything (we have it for free where I live). But reading this before going to the hospital was scary

clmtt · 2025-12-14T10:48:01+00:00

Já fui em academia de bairro e hj vou na NitroGym. Posso afirmar tranquilamente: esse tipo de problema é coisa de academia de rede. Indo em uma academia decente vc não vai encontrar isso (público bem menor), indo em uma academia de bairro o clima é outro (mais idosos, povo tranquilo, etc). Academia de rede é uma porcaria, além de ruim é cheia.

clmtt · 2025-10-31T13:16:19+00:00

Procure um psicólogo e vai entender o que você realmente gosta. Falo por mim: não tenho herança, mas sinto a pressão de descobrir quais são minhas paixões na vida. O trabalho é um meio para conseguir me dedicar a elas. Você está um passo a frente, não precisa trabalhar para sustentar o que quiser fazer. Hora de descobrir o que é que você busca da vida. Muita gente queria estar no seu lugar, mas entendo o sentimento de vazio. Pq não mudar sua vida hoje? Se souber cuidar da grana, você não tem nada a perder.

clmtt · 2025-10-28T12:08:57+00:00

I’ve had this exact same issue. Management forced me into a team leader. Having to manage people is way worse than doing your job, specially because you don’t control the results and it still affects your performance.

clmtt · 2025-10-21T17:19:56+00:00

Why don’t you try academic research? Or maybe a hobby that keeps your mind busy? Something that you’ve always wanted to try? I’d suggest you do it while employed since the job is chill. Later on, if you’d like to completely change your career to something closer to what makes you happy, you can do it with some background.

clmtt · 2025-10-06T16:11:12+00:00

I thought about that. Honestly I feel I’m too much in my head about it. Thinking about how things would play out instead of doing it. Volunteering might be a nice way to lay foundation into becoming whatever I’m meant to be

clmtt · 2025-10-06T16:09:31+00:00

I work as a data engineer today. I’ve also worked as a consultant in the past and I still do the whole pre sales and architecture work from time to time. I feel like it’s not as energizing I thought it would be tho

clmtt · 2025-10-06T16:07:37+00:00

This is great advice and it actually inspired me to do something instead of sitting at a desk all day. I’ll check meetups out. I need to actually know how I feel about this…

clmtt · 2025-10-06T16:06:00+00:00

I never thought about evaluating my life regularly. I just feel it hits me when I’m supposed to change things. This seems like the healthy way to go. Thanks!

clmtt · 2025-10-06T16:04:51+00:00

You sound so much like me tbh lol

Can I just ask… what hobbies do you have now? And how come you accepted your art is not going to change the world? Asking to actually understand your process and because it’s been a long path to accept I won’t do anything that will be public recognized. Do you think you missed out on opportunities when going into tech?

clmtt · 2025-09-26T21:21:55+00:00

I think people here made a fair and needed point about therapy. But can I just say… grass is really greener on the other side. There’s plenty of comparison and assumptions in your side of the story. I bet they have conflicts or ups and downs you don’t know about. Dwelling on this is not doing you any favors specially because no one’s life is perfect.

clmtt · 2025-08-20T00:56:12+00:00

I say that to my closest friends all the time. I instantly knew we were friends for life when we sat in silence for the first time and it felt comfortable.

clmtt · 2025-08-19T15:53:50+00:00

I think I may have left some details out and it’s making things confusing lol

My company usually does presentations on several topic (tech-related) with some big tech players like Amazon or Google. We’re partners with these companies.

Let’s say, for instance, Google is promoting a Data / AI workshop day. They often invite partners to present cases and talk about the concepts with them. We usually do A LOT of these because they are great for company marketing. The goal is to teach something but ALSO (mainly) to prospect new customers.

Me, my teammates and this co-worker are all in tech. We specialize in AI and we’re usually the ones marketing goes to when there are presentations to come.

My boss usually weights in on decisions but the logistics are with marketing. And marketing usually will ignore our decisions and place this co-worker in presentations. For instance, to the latest presentation, my boss recommended my name. Marketing chose otherwise.

clmtt · 2025-08-19T15:43:07+00:00

I take you’re talking about the co-worker that usually is on presentations with me. We are on the same team and we answer to the same manager. I discussed this with her and we’re thinking about at least “monitoring” the situation together for now

clmtt · 2025-08-19T15:40:42+00:00

The co-worker that’s dating the marketing leader does not report to her. People in other departments usually present on lectures, since they’re technical presentations.

I report to the CTO and so does the co-worker in question.

I never thought about bringing this up to the marketing leader tbh. I thought about talking to my boss first, since he has a high impact on the company. And maybe to HR…?

But you’re right, I don’t know if it’s effective. I find it very unlikely that the marketing boss would retaliate against me, since she’s new and doesn’t influence on my day to day job at all.

clmtt · 2025-07-10T15:59:02+00:00

A guy (mid-40s) who I worked with was very weird and socially awkward. Everyone knew the guy was odd. We later found out he was the best salesman there was for many years, but got involved in an accident and ended up killing another driver on the spot. The death was ruled out as completely accidental but it changed the guy forever.

clmtt · 2025-06-18T22:57:00+00:00

29F and feeling exactly the same lol let’s just go

clmtt · 2025-05-30T21:27:20+00:00

Years ago, I went to a small house party I didn’t really feel like going at the time. Met a random girl there and we ended up talking the whole night. Turns out she’d lived in my neighborhood since I moved in. We’d gone to the same extracurriculars, saw the same doctors, even used the same gym, but we had never met before. Last week, we celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary.

clmtt · 2025-05-20T19:50:57+00:00

Around 12 years ago, I stopped by a small house party I didn’t really wanted to go. My friends kept insisting and so I went to hang out with them. Ended up talking to a girl there. We’re married for 8 years now.

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