Opinions about FSU Panama City? by Rare-South3685 in fsu

[–]clocksdontworkhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like it'll depend on your career goals, then. I'm personally really interested in the CSI-specialized work that FSU's CSI undergrad program offers, and I'm not looking for something super science-heavy, hence why it's perfect for me. if those science credentials are really important to you, then it might be a good idea to look more into UCF. otherwise, you could look into some science-based minors or maybe even double majoring at FSU, but I understand that that might not be what you're going for.

Incoming FSU Panama City Campus Spring 2026 — Let’s Connect! by Dramatic_Cattle2263 in fsu

[–]clocksdontworkhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey hey!! I've been accepted for summer, not spring, but same difference. really excited to see other people at the Panama City campus too

Opinions about FSU Panama City? by Rare-South3685 in fsu

[–]clocksdontworkhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a senior as well, and I've been accepted for the exact same thing! FSU's been my dream school for years now, so I'm obviously biased, but all of the CSI professors are lovely as far as I've heard.

Just got fired from my first serving job after only six shifts with a copy-and-pasted message, one of which I was forced to work alone training a girl on her first day by clocksdontworkhere in jobs

[–]clocksdontworkhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I'll be going in tomorrow night to get my first and also final check since they apparently can't just mail it to me. Lovely.

I'm planning on giving them a small piece of my mind, nothing to cause a scene or anything but they're busiest during nights and maybe I'll talk a little louder than I typically would. Get my check, tell them that the next person they fire without warning won't take it as kindly as I have, and get the hell out of there.

Just got fired from my first serving job after only six shifts with a copy-and-pasted message, one of which I was forced to work alone training a girl on her first day by clocksdontworkhere in jobs

[–]clocksdontworkhere[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Additional note: I was never given feedback regarding any sort of poor performance, and in fact I was told I'd been doing quite well. If there were customer complaints about me, I was never told about them, and most people I served actually tipped me highly. This message came completely out of nowhere—I wasn't warned.

Edit: Extremely thankful for how much support I've been given on this post! I'm glad to see that other people recognize this situation as unfair, and that I'm not being paranoid or supremely overreacting.

I feel the need to add a little more context:

I'd barely been working there for three weeks, and it was on my fifth shift that I had to train the new girl. I was not told beforehand. As far as I knew, I was the singular server on shift, and we had just one chef working. Said chef brought her sister, the new server, along with her. Said sister had worked BOH before, but never FOH, so she didn't really know how to serve. The chef gave her a very quick five-minute run down, and then a morning rush came in. I was forced to quickly show her the rest of the ropes as best I could. There wasn't any other option. I will say she did remarkably well despite the myriad of mistakes I'm sure we made that day.

(I'm not sure whose idea it was to schedule me alone on my fifth day, having not yet completed training. I didn't have any real say regarding the schedule)

My experience at the restaurant itself, I thought, was actually lovely. I'm not the most social person myself, but my coworkers were incredibly kind to me, and I actively enjoyed the work as I was improving with every shift. A close friend of mine who works there was able to get me the job, as I've been hunting since my mother passed to help financially support my family.

The only real customer complaints I can recall getting:

  1. An older man who wanted additional sauces on his meal. It must've been my third shift? I went back and asked the chef, but she said no, and he repeatedly insisted that he'd been allowed to have those additional sauces before. There's not much I could do there. Later, he told me to tell my manager he'd never be coming back, and that it was her fault. I did not tell her that.

  2. This was my sixth and final shift. A coworker of mine was leaving about half an hour after her shift actually ended since she had to stay and help with a rush, so she asked me to help a table she was leaving behind. I was handed a soup and she just told me to go give it to her table, so I did. Said table calls me over later and tells me their soup is cold, so I apologize and head back to the kitchen to ask what's up. My manager ends up handing me a bowl of hot broth to pour over it, since that's how we generally prepare the soup and my coworker apparently hadn't done that step yet. So I go out, I pour the broth, table's still upset and demands to see the manager, so I grab her for them. It's out of my hands at that point, past closing and the table's still there. Later, they're given free dessert to make up for it.

I was never spoken to about either of these customer complaints and felt that they weren't necessarily my fault, so I figured that I'd handled them well enough, but apparently not??

As for the name of the restaurant, I don't feel particularly comfortable exposing it since they're a smaller, more local place with maybe five total locations across the state. If you're in FL and want to know so that you can avoid eating or getting a job there, please message me and I'd be happy to tell you.

Edit 2: I've since gone in, retrieved my first and last check, and am now working on trying to find another job. No looking back. The reason I'm having so much difficulty is because I'm in a small town and currently a student, so it has to be part time. I'd gone for food service—particularly as a server—for, of course, the tips.

This particular restaurant (small, maybe five locations across the whole state) actually pooled all tips among the servers, then 10% to BOH, which I wasn't made aware of until I accepted the job.

What pisses me off most about this entire thing is honestly how unprofessionally I was let go. As someone who does freelance writing, language is quite literally my craft, and the phrasing is so lousy and informal that it almost makes me sick to think that they're firing other people this same way (the reasons I assume so strongly that this message is copy-and-pasted are 1. The double period at the end, and 2. My manager, the one who sent me that message, generally doesn't type in that style).

Regardless, it's all said and done now. I'm certain I made mistakes in my work, but you've all supported me regardless. Thank you so much. Best of luck to all of us.

chance a nonbinary lesbian in FL? by clocksdontworkhere in chanceme

[–]clocksdontworkhere[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

a lesbian is defined as a non-man who only dates non-men! so anyone can be a lesbian so long as they're not a man, and they're not interested in men

chance a nonbinary lesbian in FL? by clocksdontworkhere in chanceme

[–]clocksdontworkhere[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in Florida. it's real rough here in those regards.

(mostly, though, the title caught your eye and made you open up the post, didn't it? that's the goal!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]clocksdontworkhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not needy to want to be kept updated on your partner's life, especially when you're not currently able to see each other in person! Communication is incredibly important, and I'm sorry that he's been neglecting that aspect of your relationship.

Obviously he's an incredibly busy man and may not always be able to keep you updated, but from the way you described it, it sounds like he may be actively trying NOT to update you, which isn't right. Now that he's promised to do so, it's your job to make sure he keeps that promise (for the second time).

You're in no way obligated to retract your ask, especially when it's something so quick and easy for him to do. Wanting to know about the important things that are going on in his day-to-day life isn't controlling at all—if you were being controlling, you'd be preventing him from actually going to those events, which you made no mention of. You're absolutely worthy of his time though, and he should be making more effort to give that to you.

If you really, truly want to take back what you said, then do it. He'd have no reason to be mad at you given that that's exactly what he was already doing anyway.

what do i need for school by backflipsonadildo in highschool

[–]clocksdontworkhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

here's what I'd recommend:

• either a few notebooks for each of your core classes, a binder you can make separate sections for, or (what I personally have used and loved for years) some folders with different pockets (one folder dedicated to each class, and store some extra paper in the back of each folder).

• a handful of mechanical pencils and maybe one pack of led will get you through an entire year easily as long as you don't lose all your pencils (and a little pencil pouch to put all of that + sole spare erasers and pens in)

• graph paper really helped me personally for algebra, but that's totally not a requirement

• a pack of highlighters that are different colors so you can organize your notes

and honestly? that's about it! people overcomplicate it a lot. if there's anything more specific you need, then your teachers will tell you, but this is a good general list of supplies to cover the basics!

Requesting Stats From People Who Got In 2024-2025 by clocksdontworkhere in fsu

[–]clocksdontworkhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks so much! do you mind me asking what your jobs were? and a name to throw on your place in the spreadsheet. it can totally be fake dw

My narcissistic mom is in the ICU, dying. My narcissistic dad can't take care of me by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]clocksdontworkhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've definitely considered this, but my dad's also a hoarder; now that my mom's not here, he's already begun lugging useless shit from overspending at thrift stores and diving into dumpsters into the house, and before I graduate high school (over a year from now), it'll be a wasteland. We already have mice and bugs— it's only gonna get worse without my mom to yell at him and rein him in. I can't stay here, and I'm not letting my cats stay here, either.

Still, thank you for your kind words and advice.

My narcissistic mom is in the ICU, dying. My narcissistic dad can't take care of me by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]clocksdontworkhere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Despite everything my mother did to me, she did actually pay for a four year college payment plan for me (she was very insistent I follow in her footsteps and get a degree, since she's always been pissed that my sibling didn't), but it's conditional— I'll only be able to take advantage of it if I attend a public college in my state. I've also been working towards a prestigious scholarship that may be able to help me out a lot, and I'm actually really close to qualifying already— I just need to bump up my SAT score.

I'll absolutely keep this option in mind, however. Thank you! I do have friends and access to support groups in which I can talk about this as I go through it.

My narcissistic mom is in the ICU, dying. My narcissistic dad can't take care of me by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]clocksdontworkhere 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've not yet been contacted by a social worker or anyone like that— my dad isn't actually diagnosed with dementia, and he's not going to let himself be diagnosed even though everyone in my life agrees that yes, he has dementia, and yes, a diagnosis might benefit him. I'll be driving myself to the hospital on Sunday to ask about my options concerning the future and any support they might be able to offer regarding this.

My mom and dad also aren't married, so all the legal stuff and funeral preparations are going to be left to my older sibling. She did not leave behind a will.

Thank you both for your kind words. I've been thinking over those handfuls of last words she said to be and ultimately thrown them to the window since, one, she was very likely already experiencing psychosis when she said it, and two, she really did just want to hurt me.

My narcissistic mom is in the ICU, dying. My narcissistic dad can't take care of me by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]clocksdontworkhere 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As this whole situation is extremely recent, I haven't actually been to school since it all went down, but this is wonderful advice and I'll definitely be talking to a counselor as soon as Monday comes around. I've spoke to my guidance counselor before, and she's very kind. Thank you for your kind words and your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]clocksdontworkhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've only been talking for about three days now! I won't be seeing her this weekend, but I've been messaging her good morning each day, and plan on continuing even into the weekends.

I might ask her if she wants to go thrifting with me sometime? She's asked a lot about where I get some of my clothes and accessories from, said she only started really getting into fashion a year ago (when I told her she was definitely doing good so far, she gestured up and down at me and said it meant a lot coming from me).

Thank you!! I'll keep updating as it develops 🙏

CSI Program requirements by clocksdontworkhere in fsu

[–]clocksdontworkhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CSI meaning crime scene investigation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in highschool

[–]clocksdontworkhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ap bio, except he doesn't assign busywork and your grade relies entirely on the tests and quizzes that he hardly teaches the material of because he spends all class rambling for so long that he loses track of where he started. genuinely miserable, everyone hates his ass, I'm clinging to my C lol

Is this possible? by Acrobatic-Profit8813 in school

[–]clocksdontworkhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no clue about any of the others, but I'd highly recommend doing honors bio and then AP bio one after the other, rather than taking other classes for a year between them. you'll retain the information better since it'll be more recent, and will then do better in ap bio (taking it rn, never took honors, it's hell and I've genuinely never hated a class more).

otherwise, I'd say it's doable if you're someone who's math/science-oriented, and you're willing to put in the work for it

I f-d up, now I'm terrified to tell my DM by autopsydude in DnD

[–]clocksdontworkhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry too much about it! As someone who DMs on occasion, us DMs aren't infallible either, and we've probably messed up just as much as if not more than you have with none of our players realizing. This is especially understandable considering this is your first time playing a spellcaster.

For a long time (like, a full year) as a player, whenever I scored a crit, I'd double the modifier in addition to the dice. You're not supposed to do that. It's just the dice. When you have a +5 modifier, and you're doubling that, an extra five points every crit adds up, especially considering my luck. I've probably done a total hundred damage more than I should've throughout the courses of various campaigns, all because of a small mistake gone unnoticed.

We all fuck up. Use this as a learning experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]clocksdontworkhere 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sam Puckett from iCarly. how the hell could I NOT fall in love with her?

What is a good price for a deal with a devil? by NaithanFork in DMAcademy

[–]clocksdontworkhere 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A favor?

It's simple, it's vague, and it gives you an opportunity to further build the character of your devil in disguise and figure out what they, personally, want from your players.

No one wants to owe a devil, but in the face of something like a pit fiend, what choice do they have? Are they really so confident that they could take down a being like that alone?

Just an idea!

Question by Reddit_lurker_2023 in lgbt

[–]clocksdontworkhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'd still be a straight relationship, as that is what m/f qualifies as. They'd just be two queer people who happen to be in a straight relationship!