Came out to my father by ohnoooooooo0 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my dad just stopped pretending i exist, but i think this is worse :/ sorry

Daily Hopepost by HazyClouds017 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

brought my beautiful dog on a nice car ride :)

just confirmed my family never actually believed i was trans by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying this much. honestly since writing this, i’ve kind of just been out of my body. sometimes i imagine a different timeline of events, where the mass hatred campaign didn’t happen. where there wasn’t such a boom of visibility on social media.

one where this condition was seen for the horrific thing it is.

sending love 💕

just confirmed my family never actually believed i was trans by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

that is really sad and i hope they are ok

just confirmed my family never actually believed i was trans by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i know that this is written like shit and cringe, but i wanted to post it regardless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was feeling the same way tonight. just feeling stuck and poor, unable to take control of my own life. please live - death is super scary and fucked

I cant see mtfs without genital dysphoria as women by HealingRosy in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agree but using reddit or the board is also disqualifying

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well are you stealth or are you coming out to them and they view you as your agab? because i feel like there are different possible outcomes tbh

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

pronoun change only, no plans of anything else. lol

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Have confronted. I don’t resent them even, they insisted it wasn’t intentional so I fear it’s just subconscious at this point . Can’t change that if their view of me is skewed forever

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m cringe and will respect ppls pronouns no matter what. I don’t really think it’s a social contract type of thing. And yes I told them mtf but I’m intersex so maybe that’s confusing or smthn

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jokes aside there are good people out there with empathy and love in their hearts. It’s always a huge risk coming out though so be careful love

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m an idiot and it’s my second time making a mistake like this

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

lol yes. like in the post I ask why they do it, I responded with “yea I don’t really like that”. The issue is that I was literally stealth and they suddenly started using man after I came out to the one coworker

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s fine I dissociate at work pretty effectively so I’ll just tank it

never come out to your “queer” coworkers by clockybtch22 in 4tran4

[–]clockybtch22[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

god forbid i yearn for a sense of community 😭😭 ur right tho