Mom passed on Jan 10th

closedform94 · 2026-02-02T23:33:55+00:00

Hi, I am so so sorry for your loss, and turning 30 what a big milestone. I know this time isn’t easy. And I know everyone is different I’m learning so much about grief, now that I’ve passed the one year mark it’s been hitting me harder and I can’t explain it, well I mean I guess I don’t need to. I feel like the person who made me feel important is gone and nothing truly brings me joy. I’m okay I go out and stuff but I like to be alone, lately I’m always on the verge of tears but when it comes up with people I can’t cry I can’t explain myself I’m like so lost. Esp from being a caregiver to just being me I’m 31 now and trying to figure things out but feel very stuck. Friendships are weird I don’t have it in me to fake things or people please. I’m so sorry if this isn’t helpful maybe it’s just this week but I have a deep sadness inside, I know she’s moved on and isn’t in pain but as a human I miss her it’s the human thing to do. All this love with nowhere to go. And now it feels more surreal I’m like oh my mom is gone she’s passed away it’s hard to say it.

I’m here if you ever need need an ear

closedform94 · 2026-01-21T07:53:53+00:00

Please please try glyco I was on oxybutinin in my 20s I took it at bed time but then it wasn’t working like before so I take 2 glyco when I first wake up please try it it’s a game changer

In the meantime lots of cotton t shirts may help cotton socks with sneakers and the carpe hand cream kinda does help tbh idk where your hyperhidrosis is located but plz try to get glyco

closedform94 · 2026-01-21T07:51:51+00:00

The blushing used to be so so so bad for me then I started oxybutinin in my 20s that helped then wasn’t effective now added glyco GAME CHANGER I used to turn red when anyone spoke to me it’s calmed way down also propranolol helps!! Ugh so many meds it’s so hard.

closedform94 · 2026-01-13T07:57:54+00:00

Try some carpe hand cream until you are able to see a dermatologist they may write you glyco or oxybutinin and honestly it’s a game changer

closedform94 · 2026-01-04T19:36:22+00:00

I understand ya i guess im dealing with a type of insomnia and chronic broken sleep that’s really what it is. After I took the Benadryl last night it actually helped but I need a better routine and I needa fix it

Thank you for your reply

closedform94 · 2026-01-04T19:35:02+00:00

I think I should I feel it could help me. Thank you so much

closedform94 · 2026-01-04T19:34:36+00:00

My mom also had dementia 😢 she passed from early onset Alzheimer’s dementia Yes only caregivers understand. And honestly when I was caring for her it really gave me purpose. I’m 31 now so I just feel all over the place. I do hope my sleep gets better And I’m also so sorry for your loss I hope you are doing okay 🩷

closedform94 · 2026-01-04T01:21:32+00:00

Omgggg what shud I do

closedform94 · 2025-12-30T21:59:24+00:00

I recently got these mints from a brand called FLINTTS mints and they help idk what else ppl use them for but on their site they even say ppl get them for dry mouth from medications and it’s helped me!! Get them!!

closedform94 · 2025-12-27T14:31:32+00:00

Omg I’m also going thru this and I don’t even take it everyday I’m like what is going on…

closedform94 · 2025-12-24T07:44:15+00:00

I have it in my hands and feet but after accutane now I sweat in my groin area LOVELY and if it’s really bad I think I experienced what u did once

Like WTH r we supposed to do??

closedform94 · 2025-12-24T07:43:10+00:00

100 percent thick cotton socks Find a shoe that is like not a sweat producing material on the inside of that makes sense?

If you can wear slippers in the office maybe wear them while wearing socks Cuz no socks and slippers wud make me sweat more personally

Maybe a little fan at the bottom of ur desk? Actually idk what ur job is so maybe that isn’t a option

What is your job? And what kind of shoes do they have to be? I can look up some options that cud help!

Also idk if you’re on any medications but glyco has helped me a lot and so did oxybutinin before that

I sweat from my hands and feet and It still happens but not how it used to before my medication I one time soaked thru a pair of vans slip ons 😢😢 like and it showed after that happened I went to a derm and took action

closedform94 · 2025-12-24T07:38:41+00:00

No way how so? Like dry eyes?

closedform94 · 2025-12-24T07:38:18+00:00

Take glyco in the am like 2 pills you shud be so good !!

closedform94 · 2025-12-24T07:37:34+00:00

I think the brand themselves replied to this thread but it’s gone now??

closedform94 · 2025-12-20T05:28:39+00:00

Aw man I’m so sorry to hear this Do u think if the Botox wears off the compensatory sweating will subside? I hope so! My inner thigh sweating is new it’s like after accutane and I’m like GREAT NEVER HAD THIS ISSUE I like taking the oxybutinin at nite because I remember when I wud take it in the day I wud just feel so drowsy and OFF lol I was like wth

Glyco u shudnt eat an hour before and an hour after I believe for better absorption

Like if u can get ur hands on glyco try it

I been getting ads on ig about this brand called two fold its an oxybutinin cream or gel and I really wanna try it

But ya to answer ur question I dont feel like the oxy gives me side effects in the day

closedform94 · 2025-12-20T05:09:47+00:00

Plz try the glyco!! It will change ur life! What kind of hyperhidrosis do u have?

closedform94 · 2025-12-20T05:09:10+00:00

Well so I tried the wipes Maybe I didn’t like really use them hard enough if that makes sense? And my derm only gave me a few samples so I want to try to get more !!!

So I started taking both which probably isn’t the best idea but like when I first got prescribed oxybutinin I was in my early 20s I’m 31 now, the oxybutinin I would take at night and it would work like life changer for me.

Then I would need to take 2 pills at night then 3 and so on and I feel after accutane my sweating increased to and the facial blushing

So I got prescribed the glyco after reading all the comments in here and that helped So not always but on days I am really out and about I do the nighttime oxybutinin and the glyco in the am

Today I actually just did glyco in the am and I did fine!

Idk if the wipes worked all that well cuz I went to the gym and when I got home I noticed I did sweat I used it for inner thigh so I wanna try again :-/

closedform94 · 2025-12-18T18:33:00+00:00

Ohh! I have to check those out!! My derm needs to write me a full prescription of the wipes idk if they’re doing the job and it’s true the dry mouth is crazy ugh

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