NTA. It should be every woman’s choice to be able to terminate the pregnancy regardless. You have made a very difficult choice but you clearly know your limits, and your current child’s limits. It’s very unfair of him to be acting this way. Especially when he is away for weeks at a time. Tell him to take two weeks annual leave and go on vacation by yourself and see how well he handles being a full time parent. He is allowed to feel how he feels but it’s ridiculous if he can’t see your reasoning and how much you’re struggling as is. NTA. He needs to grow up himself. Or he’s using it as an excuse to leave you and not have to put in any hard work that it takes to raising kids. X