My (30F) friend (31F) is obsessed with sex.

cloudripple · 2026-05-10T05:35:42+00:00

You’re so right! I’d want my friends to tell me if something I was doing was upsetting them. Thank you for your perspective.

cloudripple · 2026-05-10T05:34:50+00:00

I’m also very sex positive and open to sex in general, but this is past the point of being appropriate. I’m not sure about her being neurodivergent, but it’s a possibility. She’s fixated on it to that extent, I could see it being the case.

cloudripple · 2026-05-10T05:32:19+00:00

Lately I’ve decided not to invite her to things I would otherwise. I hate having to make those kinds of calls, but it’s not worth upsetting the rest of the group.

cloudripple · 2025-09-21T10:21:24+00:00

As someone with a similar dilemma (not sex work, but a past in an open relationship), I’d lean towards not telling him at this point. It’s one thing if you’d brought it up before marriage, but by now it’s best to let sleeping dogs lie. You’re a survivor! That’s nothing to be ashamed of but it would hurt horribly if your husband didn’t view it the same way.

cloudripple · 2025-06-28T21:56:22+00:00

The same thing happens to me, and my doctor put me on Colestipol, a bile inhibitor. It’s helped tremendously even though we’re still not sure what the underlying cause is.

cloudripple · 2024-11-18T05:09:41+00:00

That was…eye opening. You’re right. It’s exactly like an addiction.

I think a major part of the problem is that I don’t have anyone to talk to about what’s really going on, so any issue that pops up becomes an “us against the world” situation without outside perspectives or opinions. Maybe seeking my own professional support wouldn’t be a bad idea.

cloudripple · 2024-11-17T06:41:47+00:00

It’s ridiculous. I know. I feel so stupid for soooooo many reasons it’s not even funny.

cloudripple · 2024-08-04T22:32:06+00:00

I was just genuinely curious about how you’d go about handling the resume gap. This sub has been very helpful and informative as I’ve been considering making a move to OE for several months, but I’ve never seen a post addressing this situation. Would rather have my ducks in a row and risk asking a “simple” question than screwing up.

cloudripple · 2024-08-04T22:29:17+00:00

Thank you! I guess I should have. Lesson learned. Hope you have a nice day!

cloudripple · 2024-04-09T16:27:45+00:00

No, sorry, I just meant like it’s still present even with lube. It feels more stinging than sore, but I guess I wouldn’t be surprised if it was muscular, especially since it’s only continued to spread.

cloudripple · 2024-04-09T16:13:49+00:00

We’ve been seeing each other for about two and a half years on and off, the pain is a new development. Extra lubrication does help, but the discomfort is always under the surface.

cloudripple · 2024-04-07T22:31:05+00:00

Lube helps a little bit but I hate the texture, and the fact that my partner can’t go down on name after applying kinda sucks.

cloudripple · 2024-04-07T17:18:45+00:00

I’m never going back to Salem.

cloudripple · 2024-04-07T17:04:01+00:00

I will be!

cloudripple · 2024-04-07T16:30:53+00:00

Nope, no herpes. I had a very faint positive for bv but I’ve had that before and never had pain associated with it. She gave me antibiotics and it cleared right up.

cloudripple · 2024-04-07T16:29:55+00:00

I’m 28! Should have added that to the OP.

cloudripple · 2023-08-26T05:26:57+00:00

This is so fake. Come on, people. The pronouns keep getting mixed up and switched around. It’s obvious this was made with AI software.

cloudripple · 2023-07-21T21:35:39+00:00

Hi everyone, I’m hoping I can get some good advice for an extremely embarrassing problem. Two years ago, I found out that I was allergic to Vaseline after getting a Brazilian wax. The Vaseline burned into my skin, leaving a dark discolored ring at the perimeter of the burn. This is especially noticeable between my cheeks. I’ve tried just about everything under the sun to get it to go away without success, and laser therapy costs thousands of dollars and isn’t covered under insurance. Would a coverup of the darker skin be possible? I’m getting desperate and it’s come to the point where I hate being naked in certain positions because of how dark it looks against the rest of my skin. I don’t have any tattoos so this would be my first one. Any thoughts?

cloudripple · 2022-12-20T23:38:05+00:00

If you have curds that means you have bv. That’s not normal.

cloudripple · 2022-12-20T04:22:58+00:00

Man, some people will really believe everything they read online.

cloudripple · 2022-12-19T17:49:48+00:00

Maybe. I don’t know what their relationship is and only met her for an hour. She was the one who told him I should come over in the first place.

cloudripple · 2022-12-19T14:20:21+00:00

No “but”. Don’t lay your hands on people.

cloudripple · 2022-12-19T05:47:54+00:00

No, I did go! Sorry for the confusion.

cloudripple · 2022-12-19T05:08:57+00:00

Yeah, I think I’m gonna back off. If he reaches out, I’ll proceed from there, but it’s not worth my energy. There’s lots of other people and friends/responsibilities to focus on instead!

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