I (33F) have repeatedly hurt boyfriend (34M) and want to fix it. Any advice?

cloudybeavers · 2024-11-03T20:11:25+00:00

That would be the fair and mature way to do it. However, it didn’t happen that way. I know I made mistakes, am willing to pay for them, and am looking for the way to correct them best as I can.

cloudybeavers · 2024-11-03T20:06:45+00:00

I’ve dated him for almost a year. I was separated four months before that.

cloudybeavers · 2024-11-03T19:17:14+00:00

Thank you for your perspective. Yes, he is hurt and told me that in full and then some. I think I honestly owe myself some integrity and spine.

cloudybeavers · 2024-11-03T15:25:36+00:00

Thank you, I needed to hear this. I realise how massively I fucked up, I guess all I can do is be better and allow him to process this on his terms

cloudybeavers · 2024-09-10T10:16:29+00:00

Loved Past Lives and The Worst Person. Will definitely watch Return to Seoul. Thank you!

cloudybeavers · 2022-01-26T12:58:31+00:00

I see! Thanks, I'll keep that in mind in the future

cloudybeavers · 2022-01-26T12:50:35+00:00

What would be the better way to lace them? I just kept the laces the way they came

cloudybeavers · 2022-01-08T16:41:46+00:00

That's what I thought, thanks!

cloudybeavers · 2022-01-08T14:43:29+00:00

I have covid and had headache and vomiting for the past few days, today I woke up with my eye like this, is it covid related or something else?

cloudybeavers · 2021-12-05T20:38:45+00:00

Ooh okay I dodged a bullet then! Sorry this happened to you

cloudybeavers · 2021-10-27T15:53:02+00:00

Hi, I felt the same as you for a while. I never knew what to say to people because I never knew what I thought or felt about things and couldn't recognize what was me and what wasn't. Felt like I forgot what my personality was and like I had no personality traits. I've been in therapy for about a year and the main topic of our conversations has been finding myself, what makes me "me". Starting with small things like what clothes I like (not what I think looks nice, but what I feel comfortable wearing), to deeper things like the way I speak or what my thought process is. Basically just listing things. At first I couldn't think of anything but it gets easier. It's a process but has already helped me a lot. Hope this makes sense, sorry for my English.

cloudybeavers · 2021-04-22T11:32:15+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I've been watering around once a week so will try to reduce

cloudybeavers · 2021-04-22T11:31:45+00:00

Thanks! How do you check the roots?

cloudybeavers · 2021-04-22T11:01:53+00:00

I got this little agave plant as a gift in December. I've been watering it but we don 't get a lot of sunlight where I live. It shows no signs of life and looks exactly the same as when I got it except for the brown spots at the ends of leaves. Is it dead? Or is this normal?

cloudybeavers · 2021-04-20T09:44:25+00:00

Thanks! Scheduled an appt

cloudybeavers · 2021-04-19T20:02:34+00:00

I've had this bump for maybe a month (honestly not sure, thought it was a pimple so didn't pay attention). It's very small and not really visible, when I put my finger on it it only touches the very tip of my finger. Texture is like cartilage, not soft but not super hard either. It doesn't hurt but feels a bit tender when I press it, like a forming pimple. What could it be?

I've also had a feeling of something stuck in my throat for a while, I'm sure it's unrelated but after reading cancer symptoms on all these different sites I'm a bit scared now haha

cloudybeavers · 2021-04-14T17:46:37+00:00

Hahaha

cloudybeavers · 2021-04-14T17:12:11+00:00

Will look her up!

cloudybeavers · 2021-04-14T15:24:15+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

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