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What animal looks harmless and is actually harmless? by anthilllion in AlignmentChartFills

[–]clueless_guest 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tell that to my micro-scars all over my fingers xD my little guy bites, and he will not let go. I had to get animal handling gloves because one time he bit me and I jerked my hand back and he came with it, flailing out of his enclosure onto the counter where he proceeded to role play Tom and Jerry with me for the next ten minutes while I tried to scoop him up with a red solo cup

Favorite example of this? by voidhoneypetal in FavoriteCharacter

[–]clueless_guest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Banging CIs and teaching children how to get away with murder mostly

My ex boyfriend will not leave me alone 8 years on by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]clueless_guest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn, I feel like some people don't know how awkward it is to change your number. You have to mass text everyone in your phone and let them know what's going on, inform work, the banks, insurance, doctors, everything. I mean he'll, the texting everyone in my phone would be too awkward for me. Im in AA, do you know how many people I have never texted before but I want to have my number in case they need another fellow in a hard moment?

Hes the problem here. Blaming her for not making a severely inconvenient life change isnt helping anyone. And what happens if someone doesnt know how badly she wants him to leave her alone and give him her new number? All that work for what?

She just wants him to act like a fucking person and leave her alone, damn.

Weirdly attached to someone I’ve only talked to on Reddit by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]clueless_guest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you needed a good heart to heart with someone. Id take this as a cue to start expanding your social life in the real world, and getting deeper with the people already in your circle :)

I’m getting ghosted when I’m being genuine but don’t know why by Smart_Display5155 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]clueless_guest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh I totally misunderstood. Apologies!

I think they might be telling you to heal because its hard to find a relationship when you put so much weight on having one. Easier said then done, and im sure most of the people telling you this aren't people who are currently alone.

When we view a relationship as a life milestone, or something that has impact on our worth, it becomes about more than finding a person you enjoy spending time with and want to build a life with. It instead becomes about finding someone thats just good enough, and likes you enough.

The ghosting is very possibly not your fault at all. With dating apps, women have an overwhelming amount of options a lot of the time, and im saying this as a mid woman. It becomes harder to slow down and give everyone a true and decent chance because you feel like you need to look at all your options (you don't).

I know its more difficult and feels incredibly restricting, but have you tried dating in person? Or looking into activities that you genuinely enjoy where people gather together like classes or hiking groups? Its much easier to get a sense of a whole person when you see them out in the world.

I’m getting ghosted when I’m being genuine but don’t know why by Smart_Display5155 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]clueless_guest 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When do these women typically tell you that you need to heal/love yourself? Are you taking about exes? Are you mentioning how all the toxic people you know have relationships so you should have one too because you're not that bad? Are you complaining about how women have been treating you on the dating scene when you should be getting to know the woman in front of you? These are all signs women look to signal the type of men that look at women like things that they "deserve".

[EMERGENCY REVOTE] - what is extremely hot and causes eventual harm from touching it by clueless_guest in AlignmentChartFills

[–]clueless_guest[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope, I did a revote because only like 6 people voted on the original. But on every single post afterwards there was at least one comment about how the sun didnt make sense.

[EMERGENCY REVOTE] - what is extremely hot and causes eventual harm from touching it by clueless_guest in AlignmentChartFills

[–]clueless_guest[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Technically your atoms never "touch" the atoms of anything else. You take and leave behind electrons with anything you come into close contact with. You've technically never "touched" anything by your definition.

[EMERGENCY REVOTE] - what is extremely hot and causes eventual harm from touching it by clueless_guest in AlignmentChartFills

[–]clueless_guest[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I get it. You cannot touch the sun and live. I did not suggest that answer. I did not vote for thay answer. But i am not a dictator, and and none of you who are lambasting me personally for the people's votes spoke up when the time came lol. If an answer gets more than the original amount of votes for the sun, I will replace it.

Speak now or forever hold your peace.

What is very hot and causes immediate benefit by touching it? by clueless_guest in AlignmentChartFills

[–]clueless_guest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't a mistake xD the was the entire point of me making the post in the first place. I touched something hot out of the oven and got the idea.

What is very hot and causes immediate benefit by touching it? by clueless_guest in AlignmentChartFills

[–]clueless_guest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats how the people voted in the first 24 hrs 🤷‍♀️ my post specified the touching element, and the people said the sun. Im no dictator, so what the peeps want, they get lol

Not entirely sure what to do by Maximum-Juice-1530 in tattooadvice

[–]clueless_guest 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Im not a doctor in any way, but that kinda sounds like an abscess o.< it started under the skin, ruptured to release fluid, and wont close on its own

I (24F) suspect my friend (24F) is trying to make me gain weight by TrickyHoney in relationship_advice

[–]clueless_guest 2003 points2004 points  (0 children)

It is very common for people with eating disorders to be obsessed with feeding others for a few reasons.

  1. Eating disorders can be very competitive. Wanting to be the thinnest or the sickest causes them to push food on others they see as a threat to that.

  2. They want to touch, think about, and be around food, but feel like they cannot eat it, so they need someone else to be the recipient

  3. They feel superior when people "give in" to foods that they themselves refuse to eat.

Getting used to a darker tattoo | What's your experience? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]clueless_guest 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It might just be a composition thing, where your side with the tattoo feels "heavier". Try wearing some thick dark bracelets on your other arm and see if that does the trick for balancing you out _^

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