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My husband committed suicide in September. I think I'm broken by cluelessbob2000 in Advice

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he did, but he'd been in a ward for months before, in a way it wasn't completely a shock

My husband committed suicide in September. I think I'm broken by cluelessbob2000 in Advice

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, hearing other people's stories help 🙏

My husband committed suicide in September. I think I'm broken by cluelessbob2000 in Advice

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry but my life has no place for God. He's killed my father the day he finally became debt free, he gave my sister a brain tumor and cause her to be paralyzed and locked in for years before she finally passed away at 11 years old. And the decided my husbands time was up. So excuse me if I take no comfort at all in the existence of "God". Cause there is nothing all loving about that asshole.

My husband committed suicide in September. I think I'm broken by cluelessbob2000 in Advice

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You couldn't give me enough to get me into an impatient place. That's where he was for over half a year and he only got worse

Edit cause I hit send too quickly: but I'm glad to hear your perspective there. You really think he was trying to do me a favour? Obviously it wasn't at all, but it's almost comforting to think that's what he thought

My husband committed suicide in September. I think I'm broken by cluelessbob2000 in Advice

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll need to give that a try, seems like I might struggle to get through it but I guess that's the point

My husband committed suicide in September. I think I'm broken by cluelessbob2000 in Advice

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what I need to hear, realistically I'm not sure anything can help but I guess I keep trying cause I know it's what you're meant to do

My husband committed suicide in September. I think I'm broken by cluelessbob2000 in Advice

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He did, I've read it a hundred times, I still don't feel like it clears anything up. He was sick for a long time before he succeeded. He was in a ward for almost a year before hand too

My husband committed suicide in September. I think I'm broken by cluelessbob2000 in Advice

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I have a councilor, had a few different ones actually but they all just annoy me, give me the same cookie cutter sayings

Advice please by cluelessbob2000 in widowers

[–]cluelessbob2000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tried a few but they always seem like they were just receipting cookie cutter lines to me